For Long Islanders Only!!!! :D

I'm a bit shy in the beginning...and I do prefer a guy contacts me..so I'll be old-school where that's concerned!!
With that been said...I'm looking for someone to spend quality time with...between the ages of.........

....>>>((( 35-45 ))).....


..even if it's just at home..I would love if it blossomed into a relationship and we can grow old together ((how beautiful is that??))
I love music..((80's alternative,old school punk,some industrial,synth-pop,old disco))..oh and I don't listen to hip-hop,rap,or country,and can't stand the pop music thats out....

but most of all he must be family oriented,I just think thats a good trait for anyone to have!!
I don't mind if he has children or not..I have one,but don't plan on having anymore..
He should be strong,confident,and know how to treat a lady,and most of all have a great sense of humor!
He should take care of his looks as well...I take pride in my appearance,and I expect my partner to put in some effort too..
I love a night of good conversation,whether emails are involved or not,lol!
I love watching a good movie..esp foreign films..

If you're a player,...please MOVE on..PLEASE BE ON LONG ISLAND and within 10-15 miles from me...I dont want a long distance relationship..I dont want to travel to get to you..I want to see you ASAP! =)
If you have a pic that is far away/or dark and I can't see you,or you're wearing sunglasses,please don't even try,(We ALL look good in shades!)and I want to see your face..I know that's NOT what it's all about,but on here its a beginning,,I think we all know that.. :)
And if we hit it off and you really like me..and I like you,don't be shy..a woman likes a man who knows what he wants and tries his BEST to get it! KEEP THE COMMUNICATION GOING!!
Do you REALLY want to get to know me?? Show me...ask about me..ask questions to get to know me..if you dont i'll know you're really not interested...I know I will be asking you questions..because i dont want to jump into meeting unless we have some common ground..



PLEASE PLEASE...DON'T expect to meet up in the first week..if it was real life and not on-line,it would be different..but us girls have to go easy these days..im sure you know what i mean!

We all can be whomever we want on here,behind the screen and the keyboard,and if you're too pushy,I'll know your'e not serious,and just want to get together as soon as you can...or HURRY and RUSH me to get on the PHONE,thats not a good sign to me..it screams "HOOK-UP"..So please..for all us girls,BE PATIENT!!!!!!!!
Believe me..we want to meet you ASAP...but...I know you know what Im talking about! LOL And sometimes it takes a good week to get to feel someone out on here...maybe sooner..who knows..but dont jump too fast...PLEASE..its a SURE WAY TO SCARE OFF A WOMAN WHO WANTS A RELATIONSHIP! ;)


I don't mean to sound snooty,or pushy,I don't mean to come off that way,I really am a sweet person..but at this stage in my life,I know exactly what I want..I don't want to play anymore...so if you get offended,then I'm not for you..If you don't..AWESOME...write me!! :)

I AM looking for a man,a REAL man,somone who will hold me in his strong arms...yes,my knight in shining armour!! Come and sweep me off my feet!
Thanks for reading..I know it's a bit long!!

For a 1st date I'd like to meet at a pub/restaurant..short and sweet so there's no pressure on either of us....if we feel right off the bat that we're NOT for each other than cool..we had a drink with someone..but if we wish the date to be longer..how nice would that be !?
good music and a couple of drinks always helps for the 1st date!! LOL!