READ CAREFULLY BEFORE WRITING: I don't date married women, this includes seperated, engaged, or otherwise taken. If your Bisexual...I'm not your type. If you smoke (more than 1-2 cigs when completely drunk), are old enough to be my mother or young enough to be my daughter, we probably won't click...sorry I was the kid that didn't like to share his favorite things with others...and I'm not the type to be the other guy ;) All that said it doesn't mean I can't / won't be a friend.
Someone recently asked me what i was looking for in a woman...my response...I'll know her when I meet her...her response...well that's not fair then how would I know if I'm a good match...Do you see the flaw in this...WHY ON EARTH would I spell out my perfect match...what are the odds of someone faking their way through a courtship/dating...PRETTY D@MN HIGH (sorry call me jaded...I call it experienced)! So ladies...be yourself, don't worry what we want/desire/expect...because if you are true and I am true...we will know when we meet ;) GOOD LUCK
What I will tell you: I prefer an attractive woman. Who takes care of herself (physically & emotionaly). I’m not looking for Barbie but Rosie O’Donnell isn’t my taste either. Height/Weight Proportioned is required. So at 5'2 a size 16 isn't my type, but a 5'10 may pull off a 16 (depending on where it's placed) We are all human and have flaws we wish we didn’t ;) Stability is deffinately needed…I’m not looking to balance or take care of a woman…but compliment. If you are a party animal (more than 3x a week your at the clubs/bars til closing) you’re probably not my type. If you’d rather sit at home and play in the garden or watch tv on a Saturday then hit the road and go somewhere we probably won’t be match either.
A bit about me: I'm 34 and not about the change myself for someone else...If your looking for a "fixer-up" guy; I'm not the guy for you. I have learned you change for yourself, don't try and change for someone else or expect them to change for you. But there is always middle ground. I like to laugh and play. I'm a strong personality (A type). I like to be the center of that someone special's attention; not everyone's attention; I'm comfortable being a side kick or in the lead... But I HATE being on their sideline while someone tries to be the center of attention for others for thier ego's sake. I would like to find my last first date (this stuff is draining!) I'm here to meet people for friendship or companionship...and of course to enjoy life...I believe in letting nature take its course! Pushing to hard / to fast often leads to mistakes. I'm not here to find a wife...but I am not running from the possibilities of a future relationship either. Ultimately I'de like to settle down...but that doesnt mean I will settle for less!
First Date
Somewhere quiet and casual for coffee/drinks, conversation, just the meet and greet stuff...I mean let's be real...why put on a big show and do some elaborate "fun stuff" (it is a distractor)...be casual, yourself and relaxed ...if we get along...great then there's a date 2 or even more...and maybe then we have the elaborate fun.
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