Hey I'm Bethani. I don't really know what to say about myself. I am a contradiction of myself. I am very confident yet insecure, extroverted if i know you but shy if i don't. I love concerts (who doesn't!) and don't mind the occasional movie night out. I am very much a home body (being a single mom will do that to you). My son is the biggest part of my life but I am looking for someone who can fill the other half of my heart too. I'm not expecting any man to come in and play daddy but I do expect a guy to be a good influence on my son if he ever meets him. I want to meet someone that I can look up to and that will look up to me. I can be very sarcastic and sometimes come across as abbrasive, but it's usually all in good fun. I was raised around my older brother and all of his friends and the majority of my friends are guys because of that. I usually joke with the guys without a censor, which can be a turn off for most guys... but it's me... I like being random and crossing the line. Also, I will not date someone who does any kind of drugs, I have the welfare of my child to think about so even "occasionally" smoking pot won't work for me... sorry :(



****Please don't message me with a cheesy one liner... I won't respond...

something different... i'm sick of the same old same old.