"City lights, the pretty lights, they can warm the coldest nights...all the people going places, smiling with electric faces, what they find the glow erases. What they lost, the glow replaces & life is love in a NEON RAINBOW!"

Hey, The Box Tops said it all. BUT for some on here they seem to "glow" only when they can just "look" over the photos or just being "pen pals!" LOL

I'm looking forward to going places with thst special "someone" NOT an "online lurker!" lol

"What's up with that?," as the kids say nowadays! LOL

Anyways, huh? What's that? Oh, OH! I'm being read RIGHT now? Oh okay!

Er, ahem...is the spinach out of my teeth? Did I floss it out?

Okay I'm ready...

Hello all! I'm here looking/searching for MY Mr. Right, NOT Mr. Right NOW! LOL Too many of those Mr. Right Nows out there! LOL Too MANY! LMAO
I just want/need 1 man that's for ME! I'm a "ONE MAN WOMAN!" Always have been, always will be! Just want/need My man, My love, My friend! So, till that happens, here's my profile needs...ready? Set? READ! LOL

CONNECT/CONTACT IF INTERESTED DON'T JUST CONTINUE TO LOOK/VIEW! E-mailing on here is perfect to start.

( I would/will consider briefly turning on my "instant messaging" service on here, this site, if the e-mail(s) sent by the man/men is/are acceptable. I'm not here to continuously have the same people "instant message" me over and over again! That's "pen pal/online friend" action. Not there for that. So step away from the computer! And no one gets hurt! LOL)

If the e-mails ( "instant messages") are doable, next, make verbal (phone time) communication, then if all is right, we can meet in a public place. (See below "What Would You Do On A First Date" segment.)

I believe a man needs to court a woman/lady.
Seriously, we're too old to just continuously "look" for days, weeks...on end. MAKE A MOVE! LOL I'm waiting! ZZZZZZZZZZZZ LOL

After reading my profile, my needs/wants/desires and you see that we're not compatible, you don't need to write. C'mon, don't waste your time or mine when you could be looking at/for someone else on that's right for you. Don't just look at my photos and respond.

READ MY PROFILE.

Now lets' continue with the profile/portrait viewing/reading.
Looking for a mature man, my age or older...a man that's 50-62! At 48 years old, I know what I need/want and what I'm comfortable with...I've always preferred men older than myself, that's just me! They've been there, done that but willing to try something new and refreshing, er, ME! As Bozo would say, 'Hey, that's me!"
Yes, I'm looking for a relationship that would lead to marriage! Yes, I said the dreaded "M" word! Ooo! Ouchie! What was that thunk?! Off the floor yet? I hope I didn't scare you too bad when "you fell down and couldn't get up."

(((((Please do NOT respond if you're STILL a married men and/or separated, ARGH!!
NO cigarette smokers, heavy drinkers or drug problems, ARGH!
NO men with children living with them and/or younger children (under 21 yrs).
NO men much younger than myself,
NO men that have been in only 'committed situations'
NO men that have/has roommates and please
NO men that have NEVER been married. ONLY divorced or widowed men.
NOT looking for pen pals/more male friends! DON'T ride motorcycles!
NOT looking for men to "hang out" with, I'm not the woman you're needing/looking for....
As Bob Dylan sang, "Go away from my window.
Leave at your own chosen speed...No No No It Ain't Me Babe! It Ain't Me you're Looking for Babe!"
BUT for those that may qualify for/to the other parts to that song, then I'm for you and you're for me! Splice up the song to see what the meaning is, if one hasn't already! LOL)))))

You MUST have your PHOTOS, yes, photos at least 2, in the initial photo area as you "see" me so I'd like to "see" you, only fair.
A facial and full length body shot is doable.

I'd like the man that enters my life to definitely be mentally/physically fit, that's a must along with the intelligence/mind!
I love being pampered and pampering, it's the only way to go!

I have 3 CATS and 2 BIRDS so DOG men, sorry, you "can't let the dogs out!" It's not a compatible dating/mating situaton for me.
My cats and I don't have dogs around! meow!

I love to go out but also to stay home and watch PBS, National Geographic, History channel, Frasier and /or watch a good movie, or just sit and read ( I have an extensive library at home, bookcase upon bookcase of books/literature) and/or listen to classical music. I love music, ALL types.
Motown, Blues, Jazz and yes, even some (light and heavy) rap and country. Love Waylon Jennings, Willy Nelson and early Glenn Campbell.
But classic rock and roll is my heart of hearts when it comes to music! ( "I've got blisters on my fingers!" Beatle fans will understand that line! Do you know who said it!? )

I can deal with some baggage as long as it's Gucci, Pucci, L.L. Bean, Land's End but nothing from Wal Mart or K Mart.
I like Target though I must say...alright, alright I'm flexible with shopping!

I also love to go (primitive) camping. Yes, a tent on the ground w/ a campfire...just plain roughing it outdoors. And if I break a nail, who cares, it'll grow back eventually! LOL Not a big deal to me. I like battling cages, still bat like Joe Morgan. But that's the type of woman I am....
I love flea markets, going out and can be flexible in MOST situations.
And of course, I do LOVE all girlie/womanly things! Shopping, pretty things.

I just don't want to play internet games...I'm for real, and very direct. This is the 2nd half of my life and I wish to spend it happy and in love with My Mr. Right!

Good luck in your searches and in your life's travels...peace.

On a first date, it would depend on the person and the situation, NO first date can ever be the same for every first date. Shows no imagination.

I will also state that I will NEVER meet a man for the first meeting in a situation that could be possibly not be in my best interest.

I prefer to keep it in the daytime where others are around. A coffee shop, eatery, museums, a nice walk with others nearby, group get togethers, etc. This way, you can have some time to actually talk and get more information about that person of interest! You can also "see" them on so many levels!

Keep it fun, imaginative and friendly!

(Please NOTICE MY PARTICULAR PHOTO(S) AS ALL my photos are recent! If you look at the Chicago Cubs cap photo(s), or the Bears photo, you'll see MY photos are all recent!
I try to keep my team photos seasonal. For the sport being played at that time.

Look at a person's face, the person's clothes, and clothes of others if in the photo with them. Look at the background of the photo, etc. to notice if they are recent photos or something from the 80's or some other time period long gone. At least 2 (TWO) photos of a person ( recent full length) and/or a face shot is a great way to "see" someone way before you meet them! Be observant and you'll get NO surprises/lies when or if you do meet that person!)

Male
Age between 49 and 62
Live in United States
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Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke