I am looking for someone who is upbeat and feels positive about where they are going and the experience they have already had. I am looking for someone who is in it for the long term. I dont like to descibe in terms of "soulmate" just seems a bit trite to me anyway. I want that chemitry and caring you can only get from one person. I can't decribe the attributes of the women I am looking for in terms of a list but I will know it when she touches my heart as I do hers. If you are looking for that special relationship I would love to hear from you!