How does one talk about themselves without looking well....overly self-promoting? In reality you can't. Okay, I am a author of 6 books, motivational speaker, speaker's coach and vocalist. Next month I will be conducing a workshop on goals and speaking. www.FastTrackSpeaking.info. My hobby is people and getting to know them and then there is my Mac. I design my own sites and enjoy the creativeness. I do SuperSlow workouts.

I have taken more of life's journeys then life would seem to allow. I have a deep desire to know everything and to find, with each new discovery, that I seem to know little. I am emotional stable and know who I am and I am fine with me. I enjoy most all music from Jazz to oldies. As a singer I have provided free concerts for charities for many years. (the music added is one of the songs I sang in my concerts). My goals to continue writing and workshops help others grow. Both will have their own internet TV shows with guests that have achieved tremendous goals and speaking and presentation tips.

[b}"Can you and I try "Friends First?"[b}

A sense of humor is so very important for me to have and to have in my lady. Do you love to laugh?

Just after my divorce, five years ago, I had two dates with a wonderful woman but we didn't click. We both said, "well, we tried." A few weeks later she had an idea. "Why don't we spend time together as friends first with no expectations. Can we put romance on the back burner first?" I thought why not? We met for lunch, as we had the first time but, this time we talked and opened up to each other for 3 hours!

There are 3 questions that can keep relationships strong:
1. What more can I do for you?
2. What less can I do for you?
3. What can I change for you?

It is important that when we ask these questions of our mates that we remain quiet and allow complete answers and not interrupt or make excuses. Each one in the relationship gets their turn. In doing this truth and honesty prevail. The greatest problem we face in relationships is communications. Ask these questions of each other as needed.