Why you should get to know me:

I'm easy-going, make friends effortlessly, use humour and look to seek an affectionate relationship while offering fulfillment and happiness. I'm helpful and adaptable where necessary. I do not drink, smoke or take drugs. I'm not really into sports unless you are, I'm very adaptable. I'm a one-woman man with strong values on family, children, women & friendship. I love children and people, especially elders. Being a good role model is important to me. I'm not into politics, power trips or head games. I love to travel, however not alone. I love animals, photography, scrabble, computers, gardening, dancing, skiing and life, listening to nature, birds, and being alive and appreciating that being with someone means giving oneself 100% to each other. Good strong communication and having the willingness to compromise are essential, as is having a well-balanced life. Sharing friends, family and sometimes having quality time alone & having a wellness plan are also important. A gentle smile opens the way to many hearts. I am employed full-time. I believe in spirituality & I will fully respect your beliefs & boundaries. I offer affection, conversation, honesty and openness, financial support and family commitment, sexual fulfillment, companionship, admiration and domestic support. I'd like to meet someone who is happy with themselves, confident, open to communication, straight forward, hard working, motivated, passionate, open to adventure, outgoing, has the ability to feel without barriers, drug & alcohol free, does not need to be in control or be controlled. My goal is not to change anyone, it's to be with someone and together we can fill that void in our lives that will make us complete. Working towards trusting one another and living each day one-day-at-a-time are attainable goals. Then let us begin our journey today and make our tomorrows memorable. I also love animals & pets of all sorts (including dogs, cats, song birds, horses, etc.)

What have past relationships taught you?

That communication and spending time together and having quality time alone are important. Sometimes relationships come to an end, that the prayers you sent up have been answered and now it's time to move on. A good relationship must have a strong emotional foundation built on trust & the sharing of common interests. Also that sometimes disagreements are inevitable as it brings reality to the forefront, then for the relationship to grow, it's important to reach a compromise and to learn from the experience together. Making up can be fun. If your last relationship has left you with a scar, remember there is something beautiful about all scars of whatever nature. A scar means the hurt is over, the wound is closed and healed, done with. It is now time to move on, let the healing process begin... Let me be a part of your world, let us start a new journey together...

Describe some of the most important things in your life:

I enjoy being with people, laughing & using humour, travelling, & just living life to the fullest. Making sure that whomever you're with, you're compatible. Having the chemistry right from the start & respecting boundaries. Family & friends are very important, just as having a good wellness plan, my grandchildren are very close to my heart. Knowing your happiness is essential and in return I am happy, working towards finding what makes you tick is important to me, the relationship is my highest priority, for without it, there is no "us."

Describe your perfect day:

Waking up and knowing that everyday is a gift & taking each day one-day-at-a-time, while helping others & always keeping busy. In a relationship, it is important to spend quality time together and as the day unfolds, to attend to the daily activities of everyday life, whether it is school, work or play. Sometimes it's good just to relax and have a quiet day together & ponder why or what took us so long to find one another...

One final thing I'd like to mention...

I've travelled throughout the US & Canada, worked underground as an miner (long-hole driller & explosives handler), worked in diversified careers including; housing, construction, carpentry, plumbing, electrical, finishing carpentry & as a handyman, Internet Provider, computer sales & repairs. I was a strong political advocate as a Chief for over 8 years & as an Administrator for a few. I speak for those who will not or cannot speak for themselves, namely children, abused women & elders. I am also a cartoonist. I enjoy meeting people & making new friends. I am down-to-earth & never think too highly of myself, that way when I fall, I don't have so far to be humbled. Besides my philosophy is; there are two ways to look at life and the world. We can see the good or the bad, the beautiful or the ugly. Both are there, and what we focus on and choose to see is what brings us feelings of joy or feelings of despair. I choose joy...

Now that you've read this far... What is the opposite of two? A lonely me, a lonely you. It doesn't have to be that way. Take a chance & email me, include a recent picture if you can. I'm not desperate & hopefully neither are you. I am single & available. My priorities are to share many quality moments with you while respecting boundaries, personal time & whomever else you want to share our circle of life. I shall answer all. I will not be offended if you say no, there are plenty of fish in the sea. My advice is take that chance, send me a line, take a boo & let's have FUN....

I have submitted a few pictures, in some, I'm with my granddaughter, she lives in Calgary & when I was there, I spent a lot of quality time with her. They say that to the world you are but one person, however to one person you may be their world... I am active & I exercise a lot. I AM exactly as you see in all the recent pictures... I speak from the heart because the words that come from the heart enter the heart...

First let's meet & see if there is any chemistry, it doesn't matter if you are a little shy as long as you are open to communication. We can go to some neutral place, have a coffee/tea, chat and get to know one another, or just take a walk. Share a little history, where you've been, where you're at now and where you plan on going with the rest of your life (your expectations) & I'll do the same. Let's break the ice, have fun, and just relax. I'm a good listener as well as a good talker, people tell me that I bring out the best in people....

I love music of all sorts... The lyrics say so much about who we are... Find your songs & dance like no one is watching. Sometimes the words & lyrics reflect our values & how we feel. So, don't be afraid to make first contact, let your heart guide you & go with your feelings. I'm down-to-earth & I seek a perfect mate. It's not that anyone is perfect by any means, it's just that we may be perfect for each other. Besides no one is perfect until you truly fall in love with them.


"All our young lives we search for someone to love, someone who makes us complete. We choose partners and change partners. We dance to a song of heartbreak and hope, all the while wondering if somewhere and somehow there is someone searching for us." - The Wonder Years