I am a very kind hearted person who is looking for someone who is honest about who they are. I am a single mom who is trying to do the best that she can do. I believe what I do, does influence my kids, so I seldom drink (maybe once a year)...and when I drink it is not around the kids. I do not smoke or take drugs. I am looking for the right person that will not just want me, but my kids also. What I am looking for right now, is just dating. I do not believe you can tell how things will work out, until you know someone. I believe that if it does not work out, I would rather that person tell you upfront then spare my feelings. I would do the same. I am looking for someone who is dependable. If a date was planned and could not make it, well I would rather that person call, than a 'no show'. and I would do the same. I like to go to the movies, go bowling, miniature golf or whatever lifes adventure takes us.:

For a first date...I believe that is where you get to know someone (but it takes longer than a first date, just to get to really know someone). It would be nice to meet at a restaurant or something for the first date. After we know eachother, than we can go from there. I am not too picky, just as long as I spend it with someone who enjoys my company just as much as I enjoy theres.