Hi, I'm a retired Firefighter/Paramedic and have been widowed for 3 years. I'm looking to meet a woman who is fun,kind,gentle and optimistic. I have a wry sense of humor,ok I'm sarcastic, and appreciate the small things in life.I'm open for a night on the town or just cuddling up on the couch and watching a movie.I like to work with my hands, whether it be remodeling the house or working on my boat, motorcycle or you. I enjoy grilling all year round and listening to music.A live band is always a good time. I don't have time for head games, bs, or posers.I'm not looking to fall in love in a month or two, or be your rebound guy... So if you have your head on straight, you know what to do...