11.21.2009

Ladies, only non-smokers please; between the ages of 40 & 60. So, if during my PoF adventures I happen to click an icon of a younger (less than 40) lady, my apologies.

NC ladies, I have to be upfront about my intensions of moving back to the southeastern part of PA; probably next year.

My current issue is whether I really want to move from this temperate location of which I’ve lived in for at least the last 10 years, back to the beautiful yet very cold (during the winter) southeastern part of PA. The family certainly wants me to move back to the area, we'll see. For now, a few more visits up north during the holidays before the year is over. I’ll be the guy waving hi & bye on my way to Lancaster, PA, for Thanksgiving; already have a busy schedule (oh darn, not ;-).

I usually only communicate with ladies who have posted photos, but if I do not return your greeting, please do not take it personally.

I am not much of an alcohic drinker, more than two drinks and I begin to giggle and get a little flirty. I usually change to a soft drink after the second drink. The only time you’ll see me drink more than two drinks will be in the comfort of my (or your) abode, and only between us.

A lady empty nester would be very appealing, as I am an empty nester myself. My son graduates from college in FL this May, I’m very proud of him.

I have no pets. I’m a 75 to 85% neat freak, but on occassion I do go bohemian for a day or two, in the privacy of my apartment.

I’ve always followed my own way, even if it means taking the lone path.

I really enjoy dancing, and during my weekends I tend to go to at least two dancing events. It’s great fun, exercise, and I’ve gotten to know many wonderful people socially; not sexually. I felt it had to be said.

With all of the changes in my life, I’m learning that I’m more complicated than I thought.

While I am a romantic, and take extreme pleasure in being romantic, even frisky, I am slow to the game. Meaning, I am extremely slow in making any overt advances on purposes. I rather get to know you first (believe it or not), than jump into anything neither of us are ready for, or would rather walk away from.

I enjoy all musics, except 99.9% of rap, I enjoy sport events (I even took a bat for a lady friend of mine once; another story for another day.), and I also enjoy quiet alone time. I tend to be reserved, though those who get to know me chuckle when I suggest that about myself.

I am not religious though I am conservative. Shows I like include 2 1/2 Men, The History, Science and Military channels.

I’m an easy going kind of person, I try to never be in any hurry and would rather skip an event than deal with the useless stress (and drama) of hurrying up, or being tied down to someone else’s schedule.

The past year and a half since my divorce (of 26+ yrs marriage) became official has been one of self exploration, beginning to figure out my future steps, and developing new boundaries. Presently, I’m enjoying that lone path I talked about earlier.

Well, that’s me, for now. See you around. Oh, one more thing. I saw this on a lady's profile and thought it very kool and appropriate:

-----///\\-----Plz
----///-\\\----Put This
---|||---|||---On Your
---|||---|||---account If
---|||---|||---You Know
----\\\-///----Someone
-----\\///-----Who Died
------///\-----Of
-----///\\\----Cancer

-------!!!------- Put this on your
-------!!!------- page if you
---!!!!!!!!!!!--- know someone in the
-------!!!------- armed forces or to
-------!!!------- show your support
-------!!!------- and respect to all
-------!!!------- our troops.

Thanks.

I like to think of myself as a fun, easy going, respectful, and an adventurous person. Also, I am comfortable with you setting the pace; I am seldom in a hurry.