If I could, I would live in a song. I'm completely unrealistic. I think a good guy for me is someone who needs help unwinding. I'm into the cerebral so I tend to like people smarter than me or in the rare times it's possible, someone more deep and intense than me. I live a soap operatic life in my head. If you're not scared yet, here's my pithy list:
Me: hate schedules, don't wear a watch, always up for adventure, have a lot of unique experiences(like seeing open heart surgery, live), love deep conversation, can be intense, passionate, non-conventional but Republican, love people whose interests are dichotomous, very laid back, changeable, picky but very loyal, pretty, Italian, curvy (not skinny, not fat) I'll send a picture, not hiding anything, just prefer the mystery...do you? ***Update, adding a pic because I am now a forum addict who wants to be seen as well as heard. Still, love the mystery though.
You: opinionated in a charming way, headstrong but not overly macho(manly is delicious), deep, a serious side that you value not fear, a communicator, artsy side, tall-ish, educated, strong sense of values, a gentleman with a protective vibe towards a lady, full of surprises of the good variety, wants to share a life of adventure with a base of stability
My likes: 70s music, reading non-fiction, coffee, movies...Vanilla Sky anyone?, am talk radio, going to the PSU football games, sangria, traveling anywhere, really deep conversation, Ryan Seacrest (I'm not kidding), lots of downtime, quirkiness, spontaneity, beauty in nature, art, buildings, and people, excitement of all varieties
My dislikes: phonies, players, people who can never be serious, but of course humor is fantastic as one facet of someone, political correctness, stinginess or keeping score, rigid expectations. Cheap people, please do us both a favor and look for a woman lacking self-esteem or is on your "let's not enjoy life" wavelength.
If your profile has a close-up of your tattoos, a muscle shot, or your car, probably not for me...just sayin'...
I'll make a deal with you-you be the man and I'll be the woman. Sound good?
What turns me on the most-a nice blend of modesty and confidence...I'll elaborate all day long on that one if you want!
Anybody out there both stable and adventurous? I don't necessarily mean you have to jump from planes. I want someone who retains a youthfulness, but knows how to be responsible...anyone?
I am of a younger mindset and would prefer guys closer to 30 than 40.
