Oh the dreaded first date/interview! I would love for the guy to plan things after having chatted so we can find some common ground/interests. That would show me right off the bat if he is a true romantic and has a creative side. Actually, now that I think about it,what we do isn't what makes the date it is really who we are with.I think of a line from "Lose Yourself" by Eminem:"Look, if you had one shot or one opportunity to seize everything you ever wanted one moment would you capture it or just let it slip?" What would you do?