I may be a real bad boy but I'm a real good man and to know me is to love me! With that said let me share a little more about me with ya. I am me, totally and 100%. I follow my own way, which can get me into trouble sometimes. I never let society dictate what I should like, what I should do, or how I should live my life. I'm charismatic, electrifying and charming. Vivacious and outgoing, but only after I get over my initial shyness. I have a positive energy or special aura surrounding me that tends to attract people to me. I have an arresting demeanor, a streak of eccentricity causing astonishment and a touch of an inferiority complex. I constantly told that I smell good and have incredibly sexy eyes? I am a big thinker. I easily take the large, long view of almost any topic. I am imaginative and enjoy theorizing. I am compassionate and care deeply about others and will make personal sacrifices to be supportive of my friends. I am flexible, affable and open to adventure and I admire impulsive, spontaneous people. I try and bring real passion to my life. To me life is about connecting emotionally with the people in my life and trying to make a difference in the world around me. I refuse to settle long-term for a ho-hum job or doing something just because it's expected of me. Love is the same way. Despite my natural charm, I can't pretend to care for someone if I'm missing a deep connection. I know what real love feels like and I'll accept no imitations! I want a relationship to be like my diet… healthy. But sometimes I just can’t help but fall for the bad girl or at least agree to sample the dessert tray. Is it possible to have the excitement of the naughty with the benefits of the nice? I dislike conflict and seek the "win-win" solutions in a relationship. I am a communicator and negotiator and I am adept at bringing peace to the chaotic world around me. I am warm, insightful and an exciting companion. I'm here looking to make new friends and add a little fun to my life. But I'm also open to the possibility of a relationship. I'm ready and able to experience romance and a powerful "spark" with someone special. I am socially savvy and good at both talking and listening. I am good at reading people's faces, body postures and tone of voice accurately, so I tend to intuitively understand what people want and need. How do you just say that you're a nice, successful guy looking to share his life with his future soul mate?

What I've Learned From Past Relationships:
It's better to understand than to be understood. Laughter can save a relationship; lack of laughter can kill it. Laughing is essential. Perfection is impossible. Better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If it's worth it, I'll work for it; if it's not, I won't. Don't say anything you'll regret because you can't take it back. Having kids makes you a better person, but it will also complicate your marriage in ways impossible to understand from the outside. The Chiefs will tear your heart out, but it's fun to have something outside yourself to root for together. Soup can actually be an aphrodisiac if served at the right time of night. And finally, you must expose yourself emotionally -- it's the only way to reap loves greatest rewards. If you want to know more, just read on .

My Perception of an Ideal Relationship:
Complete and utter comfort. I can be myself around you without feeling judged. You can sit in your room working while I watch TV and I'm entirely content. I only have eyes for you, you only have eyes for me and we communicate this verbally, physically and often. Down and dirty sex and warm and comforting cuddling are ever present and if she is kinky, it doesn't bother me. I'm just a plain old nice guy but a naughty boy . Fights are rare and when we do get into it, we don't stop talking until we've reached some sort of peace. We have to be able to accept and respect each other's thoughts and opinions and have the ability to agree to disagree. Unparalleled companionship, unprecedented generosity and unconditional love grant us the foundation for a lasting long-term relationship. I like a women that has passion and integrity, is wellness-oriented, energetic, stimulating, balanced, spontaneous, aspiring, sensual, flirtatious, agreeable, accommodating, heady, attentive, supportive, grounded, collaborative and submissive and not into the drama thing. I think I am a lot of fun to be around. You'll most definitely be laughing a lot. I am interested in chatting with and possibly meeting real live people that have an actual pulse. Someone really and truly interested in some kind of friendship/relationship. No fakes, frauds or wanna bee's please. I am ultimately looking for that elusive “one” that nobody seems to be able to find.

I'm constantly trying to figure out the "rules" for successful dating but often find they don't work. So I prefer not to do 'dates'. The thing with dates is that term pretty much dictates a sole purpose with generally one of two endings, those being: we click romantically, or we don't. So I prefer to go out as friends and do something easy going, something we have in common and decide on together. I try hard to make the woman I am meeting feel comfortable and have a good time. And then just sit back, "go with the flow," and see where the meeting leads us. But like all men, I have my strengths as well as my quirks and shortcomings. Ultimately, I want to find someone who will love and accept me "flaws and all." They say the best relationships are those that start out as friends anyways. If I go out with someone as friends and something grows from that, then what a welcome surprise that would be! If not, I've made a new friend. I'm just out looking to make some new friends to share a few laughs and good times with. Those good times can be anything from dinner and a movie, renting a movie and popping microwave popcorn and cuddling on the couch to hot, raunchy, down and dirty, mind blowing sex. I'm not all about finding someone to have lots of sex with. I am about finding, meeting and creating new friendships and seeing what they can develop into. I think any friendship has the possibility to turn into a relationship. Whether it's a friendship or relationship, I am totally happy and OK with it.

Now that you've taken the time to read my profile, how about sending me a message and introducing yourself . You have nothing to lose and everything to gain...