i know what im looking for...and its tough..i dont know if im to picky..but i figure this is my life and you only live once, so i know what my heart wants and needs.. first off, let me say...to those of you..who have gotten totally mean with me cause i dont return emails, im sorry i get 30 a day, i am unable to return all emails...if you do not have a picture, or if you are over 42ish, or if i feel there would be no connection i really dont want to waste your time or my own, time is precious and being a single mom, im very time limited..i like a guy who is sweet, opens doors occasionally,and can first be my best friend and just let nature take its course..no rushing this isnt a sprint(thank you for correcting me...lol)...i like to occasionlly dress up and hit the town, but mostly i like to kick back with a beer, movie and cuddle partner and just relax and enjoy each others company...im not high-maintainance nor do i want a guy who is...i just want to have fun, i was married for 10 years and afraid it wasnt to fun...lol...so just relax and lets just have fun here!! Chris

on a first date, i think shooting some hoops at the park and then going to have a beer and watch some sunday football!

Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke