Hi there!

I’m an educated, well-rounded, well-grounded, sexy yet girl-next-door type that enjoys trying new activities and experiencing new adventures. I’m a life generalist—I aim to try everything at least once, have mastered only a few things, but enjoy most things in moderation.

I'm excited that my first published novel will hit the shelves within the next few months, and that I've just moved back to my home town in Northern NY (just moved from Denver-metro area).

All the personality tests say that I’m an enterprising, extroverted realist with an idealistic tendency, although I do have my laidback behind the scene moments.

I've developed a good sense about the differences between real and trivial worries. (anti-drama queen).

My 2 teen daughters live in Colorado, so I have spare time on my hands. And although they are wonderful, mostly trouble-free, and support me in my pursuit of happiness, they do seem to extract great pleasure from "rating" my dates based on the sex index scale. It's for my benefit, they say.

I don't collect friends like pet rocks, but rather like a few bottles of nurtured wine that better with time. I don't assume a guy can read my mind, I tell it like it is usually only when needed, and I live my life responsibly and with grace.

Holistic intimacy is important to me, which means that meaningful spooning and a passionate connection comes from emotional, physical, mental and social chemistry.

There's a handsome, fit man out there just for me. He has a positive attitude, is fun-loving, and yet knows responsibility. He is a general practitioner of human kindness and tolerance, is open and open-minded, has the ability to trust, accept my affection and has the emotional and physical ability to reciprocate affection ;-)


~J

Although a Chai Latte junkie, and open to meeting at Starbuck's, I also enjoy meeting in places that have a lot going on, such as museums, malls, mainstreet sidewalks for strolls... If we momentarily have nothing to ask one another, then we can always talk about what's around us and observe what we're like in the real world, which actually is a better way to learn about others than during "romantic," or coffee-house first date interrogations. But that's just me. What do you think?

Age between 32 and 45
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