Hello viewer. Hope your having an excellent day. If not, hopefully I can help pick you up a little. Heaven knows we all need it:). Thanks by the way, for stopping by and reading my profile. I take it my picture caught your eye. That’s a great start in my books lol.

I'm an out spoken person, but not over the top. Just enough. Cool, calm and composed. But I get penalized for speaking my mind or being too much of a go getter. Apparently, its not a quality that is found to be an asset. What do you think about that?

Now sit tight, I’m about to drop somethings on you. So please be patient and take a minute. It’s some provocative thought...promise:)

I've talk to a couple of friends on here, which are women I might add, who are in the process of trying to meet decent people. But the problems that they are having is the constant guys who pose by their car or wear no shirt or leave messages like..."Hi, how are you", "Your hot, want to hook up", etc. Basically men that are after one thing. You know what I’m talking about.

Now, I'm just speaking based on what I've been told and they are soooo not impressed. The questions that keeps coming up in our conversations is SUBSTANCE. Where is it? Do men actually posses it? Can they actually think past themselves and stop playing games? Can they actually show RESPECT like what they have for their mother’s? Possess CHARM or even LOYALTY? Cant they just keep things SIMPLE, yet be INTERESTING at the same time? Like or LOVE me, for just ME..? Etc, etc...

Well you can imagine how I felt lol. It was like I was under the gun or being attack by all four corners lmao. But after they cooled down a bit lol, I asked them this.

“Why is it that women, like yourselves pass up guys, that actually may have all the qualities you require and more? Or better yet, they may posses some of the key qualities. But just need that nudge in the right direction, to pickup the rest. Why not give them that chance? You are here for a reason. Why complicate things further? After all, its about finding a new experience with someone you never thought you’d meet. Someone who can totally turn your life around or send it in a new direction. Someone who can show you what it is to care, help or even love again. Don’t you deserve that?..... Don’t we all want that?..... Are you being disrespected? No, then show appreciation. After all, when you like or even love someone, falling for them, there’s no shame”. I know what its all about. I can sit here and talk about it, because I’ve experienced it. I’ve felt it, I’ve lived it. I knew what it was like to have someone who loved me, cared for me, just for me...faults and all. So don’t turn your back on the potential of something amazing.

The goons, players and douchebags will get theirs. Karma’s a B***h and it always comes to collect. So live your life. Take the "thug" mentality. Show them your above them and can't be touched.

Now I know it isn’t that simple. There are exceptions. We’ve all being scarred by one or more individuals and its really left you as the “Punisher” for all those who come after. I know. But if that’s the case, you shouldn’t really be on here. You’re just not ready to make new friends, to date casually, or even look for that soul mate. We all know the saying, “To make money, you got to spend money”. Same principle applies. Look....all I’m trying to say is if your interested, stimulated, moved or whatever, take the time to examine it. In this day and age you....never....know:).

I’m just trying to make my way through this world and it would be awesome to have someone go toe to toe, blow for blow with me. Behind every strong man, there’s an even stronger women. Am I lying...come on...you know I’m not. Its the real, unscripted truth. Because trials, tribulations and relationships, make us strong and who we are today.

I’m 27 years old, as it says on the top. I don’t think like your average guy, but I’m one of the coolest brothers on pof hands down. Its not C****ness, just sheer confidence. I know how to treat my woman real good. Respect would never be a problem. I can be a joker and have you rolling, but never over the top. When serious moments approach I’m focussed. Great conversationalist, accompanied by sarcasm, wit and charm. I try and stay fit as much as I possible can, by keeping a good workout schedule. I consider laugher, joy and the enjoyment of life a must. I’ll pretty much try anything once. But if I like it....man are you in trouble lol. I’m a business owner, so achieving is nothing new to me. I'm also involved in a few other projects that I can't speak of just yet, but keep your fingers crossed for me:). But I'm definitely out to make my "stamp" on the world. I’m a man of my word. It’s rare in this world, but I live by those very words.

Besides all of that, I’m looking for a beautiful creation, molded by God’s touch, through my eyes. Someone who’s easy to get along with, despite the B****y tendencies. You can be the silent, shy type or the loud, outgoing type. If I’m doing wrong, I want to hear about it;). Must appreciate the simple things in life, but always striving to be the best you possible can. Must live for the moments. Seize all you can. Be comfortable in your own skin, because if your cool, then I’m cool. Be able to step away from things and just relax. Even breathe... So many people get so caught up in their lives and they leave out the things that keep them young.

Fake women need not apply. Know what you want and pursue it.

I have no problems with being friends or even hanging out. If thats how someone one wants it, then I respect that and won't cross it. Whatever happens after that is up to the both of us.

Ps. Sorry IM disabled. I do my best to respond to every single message I get...interested or not. I think its only fair for you to do the same. We are BIG PEOPLE here folks....:) Lets live up to it:)