I am a kind caring bright guy.Friends tell me I'm extremely honest(sometimes too honest, so don't ask me if your bum looks too big in that).I love restaurants and wine bars but also love nights in, cooking a meal, dvd or chilling to some great music. I am looking for someone who is open, honest, funny, but also challenging, but for all the right reasons, basically my soul mate.Too many commas, any English teachers reading, apologies.

First date would definitely be a quiet drink. Somewhere we could suss each other out and see if we connect.