I'm looking to spend time with someone so if you don't have the time or the idea that you could possible want to hang out at some point, THEN PLEASE DON'T BOTHER cause you don't have what I'm looking for. If you live a few hours away & want to chat, I have no problems with that but make sure your willing to travel that time also. I'm a big believer that love doesn't necessarily come from two blocks away but you have to be able to put in the same effort.

- I am NOT going to force a conversation out of you. Either talk or there's not much reason to bother. A one word answer is not a conversation, if you want the convo to continue you need to add to the conversation. Ask some questions don't be shy, show some interest.
- I'm not a chaser, if you don't reply to a message I will not message you back a second time.
- Tired of the BS, just looking for someone who's willing to put in the some effort.
- Please don't ask to add me to you MSN right away or to call right away. I have a three step process so that it's worth the time & effort for both of us. It makes sense so follow me here.
*1. Messages back & forth to see if either of us have any interest.
**2. Then after about 4 or 5 decent conversation pieces I'll add you to MSN if you wish. Then if we can hold up conversations from there without losing touch we can move onto number 3 lol.
***3. The phone conversation - this is where we possibly make plans to chill or go for a drink. lol See that wasn't so hard eh. Glad your following...

PLEASE DON'T THINK I'M BEING A HARD ASS, SOMETIMES THE ONLY WAY TO GET YOUR POINT ACROSS IS TO "GET DIRECT". lol(---- See what I did there.... it's a joke "Get Direct" I should get comped for that one)

THINGS I DO HAVE
A GOOD HEART - Willing to love like I've never been hurt before.
MY FIRST TATTOO - Classy yet sexy, at least that's what I was going for.
A JOB - I work in the Kitty
A SENSE OF HUMOR - Always!
A HOOPTIE - LOL Yes I drive a hooptie & to those who don't know what that is, (Google it) lets just say it's a car with a lot of charisma. Sorry the Viper's in the shop.

THINGS I DON'T HAVE
TONES OF MONEY - Nope, sorry ladies this boy ain't rich nor does he plan to be but I do work hard & can take care of my own.
CRAZY EX GIRLFRIENDS - Nope, no crazy chasers.
EDUCATED FOOL - I'm not some sort of insanely educated scholar but by any means I'm no simpleton.

THINGS I'M LOOKING FOR
A WOMAN WITH AN AMAZING SOUL - Someone who can love me unconditionally.
SOMEONE WITH A GOOD MIX OF MATURITY AND IMMATURITY - You must be able to laugh... a lot. Could be at me or with me, doesn't really matter. At the same time you must be able to hold a conversation.
A WOMAN WHO WON'T LEAVE MY SIDE - Looking for someone who won't run at the first sign of distress.
DEVOTION - and in return you will receive more then you can imagine.
A WOMAN WHO TAKES CARE OF HERSELF - Sorry not a fan of the "Misstache" or the "Crusty Dry Elbows look" lol. I like a woman who takes care of herself physically & mentally. I do it so I would hope that she does to.

WHATS RESPECTED - A woman who takes care of her own. Being self sufficient isn't practiced enough these days. (A Queen)

WHATS NOT RESPECTED - A woman who feels she needs to be taken care of. (A Princess)

THINGS ABOUT ME
I'm very easy going, love to laugh & have a ton of love to give. I can be a lil crazy at times but slowly becoming an adult. I am not conceded nor a cokcy jock like people seem to think I am by my profile. Thats really nothing like me at all. I'm not into video games or watching sports (baseball sometimes), though I love to workout & be as active as one can (Roller blading, hiking, exploring, adventures, long car trips). I am a very devoted person & a very loyal friend. I think my friends would say that I'm a hard person to forget & once you know me you'll never doubt me. You'll either love me or hate me, there's not much in between.
Just a quick note to those young cats who like to message me, keep in mind I'm a lil older, a lil more reserved then I once was. I'm not that exploding teenager at the bar pounding back 5 shots of tequila, pullin down my friends pants & gettin my ass smacked by some lil hottie. No unfortunately I'm not exactly that guy anymore. "Just a lil more reserved"

TURN OFFS - People (Women) Who think their $hit don't stink & who are more concerned with one's financial progress & material status. Bad attitude, low self esteem, Right winged nuts. Smokers.... GROSS!

TURN ONS - ETHNIC WOMEN (SPANISH, Asian, European, black, hell even alien! Not to say that I don't love my Caucasian women. A woman with a sense of humor. One whom takes care of her self, works out, eats well, etc.

For the right woman I would cross this earth barefoot over glass... She is never to far if she just shows me the way.

(Great things come to those who are willing to make an effort)
CONSTANTLY UNDER CONSTRUCTION : AS TO AM I


NO PIC, THEN NO CAN DO, YOU KNOW WHAT I LOOK LIKE, IT'S ONLY FAIR I KNOW WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE

Must not do drugs