i am a widow of 4yrs. lost my husband of 41 yrs. miss him. time to move on with my life. i am a woman of average looks,dreams,wants and needs. i have all of the things in my life that i need. looking for a man who would share like interests. build a friendship first. i would like to meet a man who is honest,truthful,caring and in touch with his feelings,gentle,kind and friendly to other people. live by the golden rule. i try to do the same above things in my life. take our time. find common ground. very family oriented. love my kids and grandkids.

first dates can be fun. some time to talk,maybe have lunch. take a walk after lunch and maybe do some window shopping. take the time to look each other in the eyes because they are the window to your soul. be up front with your likes and dislikes. agree to disagree. we are all different. be accepting of each other's ways. do not be judgemental. do not attempt to find out everything on first date. get to know each other thru e-mailing,phone calls and follow up dates. laugh a lot. great medicine. be positive in your life. yesterday is gone. live each day to your best.