I’M WIDOWED NOW Five YEARS AND WOULD LIKE TO MEET AN ATTRACTIVE, INTELLIGENT, CHARMING, WITTY, AND ABOVE ALL HONEST WOMAN THAT I CAN LOVE, AND THAT WILL LOVE ME!!!!
I like music, and dancing, the blues is my favorite, but also like some jazz, disco, swing even some blue-grass and country. I like festivals of all kinds art, music, food etc, museums, theater, movies, long weekend getaways, I use to shoot pool and intend to get back to it. I like fishing. I like the idea of traveling, as I see virtually all of you ladies do

I am Intelligent, self-assured, charming considerate, warm, passionate sensitive, polite, direct, an open book; I’m what some of you refer to as touchy feely, but not an octopus. I like the tactile experience, and feeling-or-not that chemistry thing, holding hands is good, and kissing is even better I’m quick to give credit where credit is due. I’m exceedingly courteous, and as a rule do not swear or use vulgarity, I take other peoples needs and feelings into consideration, take pride in my appearance, I quit smoking in 1986 don’t do drugs, and don’t gamble.
I have two adult children, and three grandchildren and I love them all.
P.S. As of October 10th 07 I'm new to this on line dating thing, and the photos were taken in the summer of 2oo7
I recently bought a 50% interest with my friend in a nice 20 ft. boat with a cuddy cabin!!! 3/20/09

First meetings should be basically very brief!!!! First dates on the other hand, should be a good kind of date for enjoying each other! Communicating by other than words i.e., a visual evaluation of body language facial expressions, etc, holding hands at the table and at least one long good night kiss, in other words, a fun date! A nice dinner with music, and dancing at a venue with a nice ambiance is my idea of a first date!!! If we leave this date feeling good about it there, will be plenty of time to ask questions on the next dates, and if it doesn’t go well there won’t be a next date!!!!!
Ladies I hate to be so cynical, but my experience on POF has caused it!! I’ve met a number of ladies, most of which I did not ask for a second date because their pictures were 10 year old head shots only! I’m obviously a slow learner but from this point on I will not consider anyone without a reasonably current full-length body shot as well as a good headshot!!!