I'm a good guy, employed, looking forward to falling in love with a best friend. I like to swim, take walks, listen to pop and '80s disco, have fun, be outdoors, write comedy, watch movies, and go out for romantic dinners.

I prefer sweetness to sarcasm and friendliness to coldness.

I can come across as shy and laid back, but I am also known to be outgoing, friendly, and passionate.

My family is small, and I would welcome you with any size family.

Back in the day (and still now), I was pure like Wally Clever. I focused on getting good grades and did not involve myself with alcohol or drugs--or with that kind of crowd. I was a "good boy," and I am attracted to good girls.

Both I and my friends see me as as an intelligent, extremely funny, God-loving person with a big heart and a lot to offer. Where we differ is that I see myself as a virile, macho stud, while they see me as more of a teddy bear type. Oh well.

I was born transgendered and have solved that medical problem (similar to what Chaz Bono is doing now). There are no residual problems connected with it.

If you think you might be interested in me but don't have enough info about the transgender thing, please ask. I don't want us to miss out on a potentially joyful relationship because of misunderstandings or unnecessary worries.

I hope we all find the love we are looking for.

Let's meet for coffee or a snack.