When it comes to matters of the heart, why step up to the plate if you aren't going to swing for the big hit?? In your pursuit of finding the love of your life, swing the bat like you're going to hit a Grand Slam...give it your best effort and the rewards will come to you! Remember, even Big Papi doesn't hit the long ball every time at bat, but he still steps up to the plate, waits patiently for the perfect pitch and then swings with all his might!

And, if you have ever seen Big Papi round the bases, you know he takes his sweet time getting to home plate....perfect, right? I LOVE that big teddy bear, but he better get his act together soon, cos I really don't want to have to change my profile!! (Looking Papi sternly in the eye, arms crossed and tapping foot, a slight growl emitting from my throat...)

When there is a ball coming at you, you have to make a decision. Billie Jean King quote

So anyway, hello there! Thanks for stopping by! This is a long read, my apologies for that, but if you take the time to read it all, you will have a little peek into what makes me tick and what makes me click! (I AM a writer after all! Self-expression is not a problem for me, but makes a mental note to quit adding to my profile!!)


THE CONDENSED VERSION
~~ ME ~~
-HOPEFUL ROMANTIC
-Sassy and Classy
-Quirky
-A whole lotta nice and a little bit of naughty (or the other way around depending on the situation!!!)
-Smart little cookie
-Inquisitive (I ask lots of questions...it might drive you crazy!)
-Curious
-Caring
-I wake up happy and cheerful, ready to conquer the day EVERY morning!!
-Nobody's doormat
-Ambitious
-Compassionate
-Faithful (I am a one-man woman....period)
-Deep thinking
-Energetic
-Sexy
-Mischievous
-Adventurous
-Romantic
-Clumsy
-Feisty

-Encouraging
-Happy
-Monogomous...I only have enough love for one man!
-Unique
-Talkative
-If all (or at least most) of these things are what you are looking for, YOU HAVE FOUND YOUR GREAT WOMAN! I've been here the whole time, baby!


~~ THE PERFECT MAN FOR ME ~~
-Energetic
-Has substance and integrity
-Ambitious
-MUST LOVE SPORTS
-Please be well-groomed...please!!
-Happy
-He enjoys my company even when, or especially when, he is having a bad day.
-Faithful
-Kind
-Romantic..He knows how to treat a woman well and has little ways of showing me!
-Sexy...with lots of energy!!
-Adventurous
-Compassionate
-Monogamous (Monogamy is not a type of hardwood! I've been told it's actually a type of softwood!! hehehe ... just kidding!!)
-HE LOVES ME BACK!
-Thoughtful...He thinks about me in a middle of the day and sends a note or gives me a call for no reason. Sometimes, the smallest gestures create the greatest joy!
-Smart
-Trustworthy
-Communication skills...THIS IS A MUST!!!!! Can you stimulate my mind as easily as you can stimulate the rest of me??
-He phones me just to say hello and to hear my voice. Man, there is nothing better than hearing his voice and his laugh even if it is only a five-minute call! This means the world to me!! Hello???
-He is my equal. He is my best friend, my confidante, my lover, my protector, my soul mate!

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I'm gonna tell ya a big, fat story, baby!

I LOVE the Red Sox, so be patient with me during baseball season. If you don't like sports, baseball and hockey in particular, don't even bother with me because I would probably drive you nuts with my bantering anyway! Would love to meet somebody who I could cuddle with on the couch watching a good game. My baseball buddies are the best in the world!!! Thanks to them for everything!!!

I support two teams; the Red Sox and whoever beats the Yankees! ( \ ) ( Y ) ( / ) --- (That would be my Yankee bum wiggle!)

THE MUSHY LOVE STUFF

I do hope to find the man of my dreams(perhaps I have already, but we don't know it yet)!!! You know, the one that makes your heart flutter just by the sight of him, the one you would go to the ends of the earth for, the one who accepts all your imperfections and you accept his. Once I fall in love (I don't fall often, but I fall hard), I will be his forever!

Touch a woman's mind, you get her interest.
Touch her heart, you get her love.
Touch her soul, you get passion beyond your wildest dreams.
Once you've touched all three, you have found your soulmate!

I always think of a saying I heard once about the difference between love and lust. Lust is like going to see a fireworks display. You sit there with eager anticipation, waiting for the show to begin. Then, there's lots of oohing and aahing. And, for the moment, it's a very satisfying experience. Once, it's over though, you're left slightly disappointed, wishing there was a bit more, and knowing there is something missing.

Love, on the other hand, is like the stars in the sky, just as beautiful and awe-inspiring as the fireworks, but you can lay there all night just staring at them. You can get up and know they are going to be there the next night and every night after. Even when you can't see them, there's a comfort in knowing they are there.

That's not to say I don't have some naughty in me. I do! I just want to share that part of me with ONE person only! It's all about respect for oneself and the special person in your life. I am a sensual person and maybe bit flirty and playful, but only one man gets to see that intimate side of me. Believe me, the right man for me WILL have ALL of his needs met!! Love me for my mind, not my body; play with my body, not my mind!