Just the way a good woman wants a good man, a good man needs a good woman. Its always tough to write about oneself , but here goes. I am divorced and my past is in the past unless you want to know.I have 2 wonderful girls 9&13 who are the apple of my eye and stay with me part time. I guess you can say im a softball dad. I’m a hard working man with a great job and I DONT USE DRUGS of any sort. I'M HONEST, FAITHFUL,LOYAL with STRONG FAMILY VALUES,SARCASTIC,FUNNY, down to earth and more. I am a little old fashion with some modern flavor. I strongly believe that in a relationship you both have to function independently, but work and play as a team. We get what we put in. I’m currently looking to make friends to hang out with and have a good time , when our times permit.if a relation blossoms great if not then i have a good friend for life. I would like my partner to be a good communicator, honest, loyal and faithful during the good times or bad. she must have strong family values, a good personality and a sense humor . She has to be able to make good sound decisions on her own, be established in her CAREER and have an idea on which direction she wants to go in life. That why i carry a compass, but the needle gets stuck every now and then and i lose my way in the game of life. She must NOT be a hot head, have a trashy mouth, act ghetto,or be a want want its all about me becuase its 50/50. Also please DONT be a DRUGS USER. DRUGS tear apart freindships and families. I preffer a non smoker ,but we cant have everything. I’m not looking for Ms. America but the girl next door that maintains herself and can dress up or down in a pinch. I dont think im asking for much am i , but if i am let me know. So if I catch your interset dont be shy send me a note i dont bite , at least until the 2nd date :). If not I wish you good luck on your fishing and hope you have a MERRY CHRISTMAS ....... pj

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