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I believe you can't change what you dont acknowledge. So..only ask me a question unless you are ready to hear an honest answer.
I'm always nice to anyone who is nice to me, however I wont take no s*it from anyone either.
Over time I'v heard many people claim that they "love him/her" or they love "this/that" but then they would do or say things that directly contradict the love that the say they feel. So..the question is Do they really "love"? ,Do they only think they "love" , or do they only claim to "love". I guess the answer would be different depending on who we are talking about.
I'm not just talking about romantic love, I'm talking about all love!
We can only love as much as we learn. Example: Child A grows up in a abusive home, who's family did not teach him how to love someone the right way. Child B grows up in a stable home who's family did show and teach love. What child do you think would be more capable of love?
Here's the beauty of it, we are all capable of learning so we are all capable of love. We all have teachers of "love" ( ie: husband, wife ,friends, parents ect...) and we all are teachers of love. They may not be good teachers but at some point you did learn to love from someone, and at some point someone learned to love from you.
As a child I grew up with parents who fought and argued constantly, and tho they are both good people with amazing hearts(and good parents..I'll add) I was being taught, thats the way you love somebody. As a result being 18 and in my first real relationship, I too picked fights because thats the only example I had to go on. As I learned in love alittle more, I started to see the error in my love. Now I'm not blaming my parents for their bad example, because at one point they too had a teacher. I'm only telling this to you so that you are aware that as you love, someone is learning from you. -TheBeautifulDreamer@PlentyOfFish
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