It doesn't really matter what anyone writes here, cause nobody even gets to this part unless youv'e passed their 'physical' attraction picture test. we all do it, and we all know it. its still dating just like anywhere else. just a thought

"Be more concerned about your character than about your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think of you"

New pics from SISTER'S wedding- 10/09!! just remember... a tux makes anything look better

I’m a laid back, quiet, independent, strong, hard-working guy. I am totally self-sufficient... meaning, i do everything(yes that includes cooking, cleaning, etc...) myself and don't rely on anyone for anything. I was raised with morals and standards (some of it stuck- haha) so I do know how to treat a girl- which seems to make me a rare find in todays world for some reason...? I enjoy sports- mostly just watch anymore but I never pass up a chance to play. I play softball during the summer. I don’t smoke or drink really- the occasional beverage with dinner, but I don’t see the fun in getting blitzed outta your mind… etc… (if you do... we wont work). In the past, Ive been in some shitty relationships. Ive always been the one that puts the work and effort into the relationship but only ends up getting screwed over and used. But because of them, Ive learned what I want/dont want in a girl. Im not sure 'she' exists but 'she'd' be one hell of a girl if so. I would really like to have that ‘one’ that treats me right. Till then I’ll be here, single, hoping and just being true to myself until someone can give me something worth falling for again- hopefully it'll be for real this time. Dont worry that i might have expectations that are way to high... its not like that at all.
So if you wanna know more... you know what to do.

Right now I work alot- but dont worry, i do have time, -you make time for whats important to you right? anyways, in my spare time and energy, i like to workout, try to everyday but, well... read the last couple sentences again haha. I dont show off. I'm sure I could create more interest if I put a pic up without a shirt and whatever- like im sure you've seen with others but... I wanna be liked with my shirt on too.... I'd like someone who also cares alittle bit about their health and well being, but you don't have to be a size 0 or anything like that. It takes discipline to workout and take care of yourself... but it also takes discipline to eat ice cream everyday. haha

"Mean what you say... say what you mean"

Sorry if this all seems to have a very frank and serious tone to it but.... I'm not really into wasting effort anymore
Secondly, probably not gonna work if you are a party girl.
And Im also done with spoiled girls- I seem to be attracted(sub-conciously maybe???? ahah) to girls that I end up taking care of and not getting anything back from. Don't get me wrong, I have no problem doing things and caring for someone, but I don't want someone totally dependant- I could just have a kid or two if i wanted that

cross that bridge when we get there