NOTE: THIS IS WRITTEN TO DEFINE THINGS, NOT PLACE ANY NEGATIVE SPIN ON THEM-----
Not "looking" for anything and not in a place where I want a relationship right now (if I wanted that, I'd change that option on my profile)...nothing wrong with a woman who enjoys being single!

These IM windows open on their own.....

We are all individuals with our own criterea, reasons for being here, experiences, preferences and CHOICES! If your expectations of others are higher than what you can offer back, I don't see how you can be successful in anything you do, and that includes friendships or relationships of any kind. It's funny how some people stress how honest they are when you know they aren't being entirely truthful, say one thing and mean another, put on a facade to elevate themselves beyond their capabilities...these things will eventually surface and reveal nothing short of a double standard...life is short, appreciate your friends and make them feel that appreciation, treat them as if it's their last day on earth and let them know how much you value them, and most of all...just have fun!

Something to ponder...if you have the lack of judgement to post pics of your kids or worse, someone else's kids, on the internet....well, enough said....

A true city girl, you wouldn't find me at a cottage or campsite, no country music for me, and I'm staying off of motorcycles, tks! Had to add that last one in...can't figure out why I get asked all the time to get on the back of one!

Careful who you give your heart to, and know when it's time to take it back! p.s. I've been tricked by the best of them

p.s. "prefer not to say" always means whatever is the least desireable of the options you had to choose from ....LOL!!!!

Please do not ask if any plans I make are BIG.....if I wish to share the details of my weekend/life/etc I will post updates here. Other than that, not every single day has to consist of PLANS....why can't people just go with the flow, enjoy their moments, and then have the luxury of keeping things to themselves? Sometimes the rush you get from something is diluted by repeating the story over and over in here until it isn't so special anymore. It's funny how complete strangers seem to concern themselves with the details of what you do at all times, it matters? LOL

I don't do coffee