First date? Probably go to dinner and a movie, maybe hang out, talk and get to know each other. Probably go to dinner and a movie, maybe hang out, talk and get to know each other. I want to find someone who doesn't judge up front before giving the opportunity to be able to meet and talk and get to know each other in person first. Too many females out there who judge first without giving the opportunity to talk in person first and get to know each other. I've met too many that are just out for a rebound, and then not want anything more and can't even be friends still. All I ask for is if you're not interested and we've started talking, to tell me upfront as an adult, and not just play the ignore game, that is childish. You wouldn't believe how many females out there just play the ignore game without communicating as an adult. I'm an adult, I don't play games like that. I like making new friends but want to find someone who will give themself the opportunity to get to know me for who I truly am inside first.