Hi there :o) My name's Josh, how do I grab your attention in the few seconds that you're going to give me to do so with? lol Well the things that people would probably say about me first and foremost is that I'm often smiling, I'm typically very pleasant even when my day isn't so great; but that is by no means to say that I'm artificial in fact that's another top word that people use to describe me; genuine. I'm typically the guy that people I know go to, to talk to and confide in, I'm a good listener and I often have really good insight into people or situations that you won't hear from anyone else; what's really nice is I don't try and jam that point of view down your throat as soon as you start talking! lol I'm easy to get along with, even when we disagree about stuff, yet I'm passionate about the things I believe in and very serious in looking at the important things in life. I'm more of a solitary kind of guy, I can be really outgoing in certain groups where I know people, where there's a common interest or where I find a niche to fit into, but sometimes I can be a wallflower too. I like to be social, but I also really like my space and my privacy. I'm an idea person, I'm creative, musical (oh yeah, I sing a lot - lol) and I've found that I do best when I have a woman in my life to pair up with as a partner, someone who I can contribute to and who can encourage me. Someone to believe in and who believes in me. Someone who I can support and understand in their frailty and who will do the same for me. Yeah and we should kind of be blown away by each other, I've experienced that before and there's nothing like it, you shouldn't try and make something limp along like a relationship that doesn't have that wow factor. So yeah, it's hard to find the person right for you, but when you finally do, it's worth it.

Independent, smiley, pleaser, gregarious, solitude, quiet, loud, listener, thinker, feeler, long fuse, content, unsatisfied, curious, investigative, strong, vulnerable, musical, affectionate, attentive, nurturing, smart, insightful, introspective, outside the box, hardworking, lazy, focussed, distracted, understands: apologize, compromise, giving, lives: passion, longs: companionship.

Lifetime highlights: Marine Corps (4 yrs), Overseas Shipboard Volunteer (26 mos/20 countries, lead vocalist in a rock band (definitely going to do that again, learning guitar now), still moving.

Some of the same but not necessarily all of the above, someone who's ready to settle but not willing to settle, catch my drift...? I think that's the perfect litmus test for a relationship. I've finally learned to enjoy being single, I've realized the benefits, I've seen enough of the other side to know it's not a utopia. Sometimes I would imagine I would be better off staying where I am and thus I know that I've found the girl I'm looking for when I'm willing to leave singlehood behind, in fact when I can't imagine myself not leaving it behind for her. Sweet, affectionate, attentive, nurturing, smart, with a fresh perspective... (that means yes we can disagree :o)

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