Up date. I am just looking for friends for now. It seems that this web site is used by a lot of men and from what I hear women as well, who are looking to get lucky and move on if it doesn't feel right to them. That is not who I am. I guess you can say that I have old time values. I have been told that I have hangups about past relationships, but I don't feel that way. I believe that if you stick your hand in the fire and get burned, you tend to learn not to do it again. When a relationship is over I heal and move on, not move on and heal. I like sex just as much as the next person, but there is a process in which you must go through in order for a relationship to get to that point. So with all that being said, I am looking for friends first and if it developes into something more that would be wonderful. But please don't push me, or you will be pushed away.
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I am looking for my partner. Someone who is my best friend and lover. I'm not sure I'm going to find him on this sight, but I'm willing to look anywhere. This doesn't mean that I am looking for best friends with benefits, so if thats what your about, move on. Race is not a problem, I look at the person inside. I'm not saying I am perfect, no one is, but I do take care of myself. I work out just about every day to try to keep myself in shape, and wish the same in my mate.

I would like to talk with someone on line for a bit before I give phone numbers out. We can talk on the phone and if it feels right, perhaps we can meet in person. Maybe for a cup of coffee, just to talk and get used to being face to face. If the conversation flows easily and I feel comfortable I may suggest dinner. After that we could play it by ear.