I've been around the block a few times with relationship. I've had true luv and a good deal of lust in between...but having a lover/partner would be nice. Im not sure I would have the kind of relationship I had in my twenties or thirties...I dont need to plan my life around someone else or have someone to say I love you every few minutes..but I would like to include a man in my life and share it with a special guy...no virgin here...knowledgeable about many things both in and out of bed. And I really like the line from the song 'Nature Boy'..."To love and be loved, is the greatest thing we'll ever know"....As far as description goes..I'm 6, chubby at 240 and some hair left on top....