First off, My picture is one of EXHAUSTION, not sadness or depression as some people deam themselves intuitive enough to conclude! haha That pic was taken after a 15 hour day at work, I am generally a happy person.
now what I'm looking for....
I would just like to meet some ladies in my area for friendship first, then see where it goes from there... I am a strong believer in letting nature run its course and not trying to force anything. I am a really BIG man at 6'5 279lbs, was a linebacker for nine years and still look like one, so if you like puny men... you will absolutely HATE me. hahaha... I'm really laid back and calm most of the time, I love to just hang out and BS with people or catch a good live band. I am an absolute music JUNKY, I love music of every genre but jam bands are probably my favorite... I play several different intsruments myself including guitar, piano, saxaphone, bongo drums, and harmonica... I know this is unusal for an old ball player but I am an unusal guy! hehe, oh, and I am also an outdoors fanatic.

probably just meet for coffee or a drink and talk, I'm not real creative about where to take my dates in all honesty