I am looking for a playmate, not a soul mate. I am looking for a man who has one of those sexy/smart brains, who can me laugh when I'm angry. (I can't stay mad if I am laughing.) I want a man who is as comfortable in his skin, as I am in mine.

I would like someone who can watch a whole movie with sub-titles, who loves to spend Sunday morning with a giant newspaper and a big dark coffee, who thinks a good night is cooking dinner together and just kicking back, who likes to be spoiled a bit and would like to spoil me in return, who lives in the moment, but has plans for tomorrow, and especially someone who has an open heart with room to grow.

If I met that man who could make me laugh with that sexy smart brain of his, I would make lots of time to have special time, time to flirt, laugh and have fun, cook together, dine together; maybe we could run away to New York for a weekend, or just sit in front of the fire and dream.

I know its sounds a bit ideal; its a snap shot, but essence is there. In a world that is sometimes stressful or a little crazy, I want someone who has my back, and in return, I'll rub theirs.

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