I am very recently divorced and I am not trying to use this site as a pickup place..

I want to find a good lady... One that has some class and likes the better things that life has to offer... I am looking for my Soul Mate and Travel Partner.

I hope to find someone that has a good sense of humor... and loves to joke around... Because I love to joke around.. If you dont find getting ice water dumped on you in the shower as funny... then dont respond... Because i think it is hilarious, even when its done to me...

And if you have kids.. I love kids... my ex had two children from a previous marriage and I had a great relationship with them.. That is actually the only thing i really miss about not being married anymore.

The First date that I would plan would be completely dependant on the type of woman that i was taking out.. If I thought conversation might be difficult then I would take us to a place where we didnt really have to talk much, ( like a movie )

If conversation was already flowing well.. then it would probably be dinner at a quiet restaurant and then coffee and more conversation at Boders or Barnes and Nobles so i can see what kind of reading she likes.

More than likely I doubt a would plan a first date to a club or bar.. rather get to know someone without the confussion of alcohol... but that depends..