I am newly out of a long term relationship (please don't read that as "rebound") and feeling that I've learned a lot about life and love, so figure why not get back on the proverbial horse! I always find this section so difficult to fill out because what can I share with you about myself that makes me sound interesting, yet not overly arrogant? I guess I will start off by telling you the truth, sound ok? Alrighty then!
I am in a wheelchair, if this is a problem for you, then I wish you all the best with your continued search.
If you're still reading this, great!
Most say I have a great sense of humor, somewhat dry and witty. I'm always interested in trying something new, whether it's a new cuisine or something artistic or whatever.
What I'm looking for: Someone that is honest, compassionate, has a sense of humor, considerate, down-to-earth, smart, and someone that is not emotionally inaccessible.
I don't care what kind of car you drive, what your financial statement shows, if you have children, etc. I want someone that has a good heart and that connects with mine. Someone that has a genuine interest in sharing their life, not only parts of it. As for initial attraction, I like someone that takes care of themself physically, you don't have to be gym obsessed, but a good physique is nice and to me, the eyes and smile are usually what grabs me.
I am
NOT looking for a booty call, but something with a little more depth and meaning, so if that's the only thing you want, don't bother messaging me.
So I've got to say, I find myself definitely drawn to guys that are the surfer/skate boarder types (never grew out of that phase I guess) and the guys that can pull off a baseball or skull cap and look incredibly hot...you guys know who you are! So come on Victoria guys, bring it!
Feel free to ask me whatever questions you might have!
I have had some good first dates, but most of them tend to feel awkward. You mentally tell yourself not to have expectations, but come on, you are hoping that you'll click so there will be future dates, so HUGE expectations!
I find that usually coffee or a drink is a good first time ice breaker, you get to chat and if the sparks aren't there, then it's not a huge amount of time you have to spend with that person. If the sparks are there, then you can carry on from there.
While I love it, the idea of sushi on a first date scares me...I'll admit, I am a mess with chopsticks, I keep trying, but I know that on a first date, I will be nervous regardless and throw in a pair of chopsticks, oy, someone is going to get hurt. Pasta is a similar situation, I envision noodles everywhere.
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