I,m pretty kewl myself.I,m easy going,and pretty down to earth. Complications and drama are definitely not my forte'. I think the simple things in life are best. I can be quite comical and a lot of fun but, I have a serious side to me as well...not everything in life is fun and games, good times are great but, when it comes to matters of the heart, I take that very seriously. I have a pretty stable nature and prefer the same. I want to be treated with respect and won't tolerate anything less.If you are looking for "good time Sally"...move on! I,ve been told i,m not too hard on the eyes but that doesn't mean I will be a trophy you can sport around on your arm when you feel the need, there is much more to me than that. I am intelligent,respectful, honorable, and loyal with high morals and I do have a very kind nature...probably to a fault. I have been known to go above and beyond when it comes to those I care about and even those I don't, should I feel there is a need. I try to always think about how my actions or decisions might affect someone before I make a move, in other words...I take responsibility for my actions and, quite franctly, I expect the same. I am looking for the "real deal", nothing else will do so, if you are free of your past baggage, true to your word, done with all the superficial shallow crap and are "truly" ready to find that special someone, then look me up,you never know... if your intentions are not honorable then....Hit the road Jack!! cause I'm not up for the game play.
And so, on a lighter note guys....good luck in your endeavors and Happy fishing.



The Invitation

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living, I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.
It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dreams, for the adventure of being alive.
It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain. I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.
I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wilderness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.
It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.
I want to know if you can see beauty, even when it's not pretty, every day, and if you can source your own life from it's presence.
I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, "Yes!"
It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children.
It doesn't interest me to know who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.
It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.
I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.


Oriah Mountain Dreamer

I don,t think I could describe a first date off hand.I think it,s a personal choice, and, everbody has there own thing, I can only say we would go with the flow and make it a joint venture. Two heads are better than one correct??? So that about sums that one up. In a nutshell, we could decide together.