I have altered my profile so many times, but I still come back to the original one because I just think it spells me out as a person . If you don't like it, then to my mind that's the way it should be. I don't mean to be offensive to anyone, it's just that I have learned to accept myself as a person, and anyone who can't accept me for who I am or what I do quite frankly isn't right for me, and I like to think I give everyone else the same consideration.

Firstly I'm not attracted to younger men, so if you're under 41 please ignore the profile, thanks. I have a son with learning difficulties and I love him very much, so my man must love children. I'm also a happy smoker, so if you find it offensive please don't contact me because I'm old enough to know the hazards of it without needing a lecture. Much appreciated ;)

I love a man who is intuitive, strong minded, confident, romantic and happy. Ideally I would like him to have a CHUNKY build with 'BIG' hands and shoulders, and be aged from 41-52.

About me.... I'm an all or nothing kind of person. When I love someone I give my heart completely. I treasure my heart though, so I won't give it away easily. I can be opinionated and a bit stubborn, but I'm always willing to listen to reason, and I'm the first to admit when I'm wrong (which usually doesn't happen). I'm very 'mindful' of other people's feelings but I'm not what you'd call a subservient woman.

On my plus side (yes there is one!) I'm gorgeous, ask any fella I haven't shot yet and he'll agree with me 'honest' ;). I'm loyal, affectionate and loving, I look good in my heels, and I listen. Thanks for reading, hope you find what you're looking for too. Tracyx P.S. sorry for any unanswered messages.

Nothing too overly exciting for a first date, just a nice meal and a bottle of wine or whatever, so long as I'm fed and watered I'm happy.