Apologies for any unanswered messages.

Hi, this is a LONG profile which needs to be read to know anything about me as a 'person', so if you're the type that only likes looking at pictures I'm afraid we wouldn't be compatible. To everyone else, thanks for reading.

Firstly I'm not attracted to younger men, so if you're under 41 please ignore the profile, thanks.

I have a son with learning difficulties and I love him very much, so my man must love children. I'm also a happy smoker, so if you find it in any way offensive please don't contact me because I'm old enough to know the hazards of it without needing a lecture. Much appreciated ;)


I love a man who is intuitive, strong minded, confident, romantic and happy. Ideally I would like him to have a CHUNKY build with 'BIG' hands and shoulders, and be aged from 41-52. I value life, love, and passion in a person, and most of all I value plain speaking (but with compassion). I realise it's considered by some to be a bit of a cliche' to ask for integrity in a person, but for some of us it's non negotiable.


I take a pride in my appearance, so I prefer the company of a man with the same attitude. I realise some people think this is 'shallow', but that's ok because I'm not attracted to self righteous people

Quote I pinched from someone...

"If you want her to be the woman of your dreams, be the man of hers," of course it works both ways (that bit was mine).

Another great quote I pinched from someone, though it's not really relevant to the profile but it makes a great deal of sense to me...

"The greatest talent in the world is not using two words to say what can be said in one"...clarity


About me....

I'm an all or nothing kind of person. When I love someone I give my heart completely. I treasure my heart though, so I won't give it away easily. I can be opinionated and a bit stubborn, but I'm always willing to listen to reason, and I'm the first to admit when I'm wrong (which usually doesn't happen). I'm very mindful of other peoples feelings but I'm not what you'd call a subservient woman.


On my plus side (yes there is one) I'm loyal, affectionate and loving, I look good in my heels, and I listen.....All the best...Tracy x


Please, one more thing. I'm not looking for friendship. Whilst it is true that we all have to start somewhere, if there isn't any sense of attraction at all from the initial picture, profile or message then there's not much point pursuing it. I do make some friends among forum members however, because we tend to share common interests, and if we don't, we can have fun debating about them.

Nothing too overly exciting for a first date, just a meal and a bottle of wine or whatever, so long as I'm fed and watered I'm happy.

older than 40
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