Let's see, I'm 31, divorced 7 years this x mas. My 7 year old son (whom I have full custody of) is the center of my life. N Sorry ladies, he always will be. I'm very easygoing, i love music like no other. I love hikeing, camping, boating, eating out (especially sushi, the anti-fast food). I love wine. I grow bonsai trees. I love shooting. I like honest simple girls. I hate the drama that you ladies all but to often bring into my life.

Short n sweet is the key to a good first date in my opinion. Something social, not too private (dark fancy restaurants are reserved for later dates) Coffee is always a good start, you get to know each other, but publicly, so if you gotta use pepper spray, you can. Short is good, because you get to know a bit about each other, but your still curios too.