Hi There,
My name is Tom, I am young at heart, outgoing, life loving, single, sun loving, all-american water rat. I enjoy being on the water, skiing, swimming, boating etc. I love to laugh, I enjoy long walks and bike rides, I am very spontaneous and enjoy doing things at the drop of a hat. Dancing, dining whatever, there is not much I dont like to do ..
I have been divorced for over 4 years, I have survived the emotional "plane crash" that divorce puts you thru, but I truly feel I came back a better person, so with that being in my past I can turn the page and move forward and hopefully find that special person to spend my good and my golden years with.
I do my best to keep in shape, I watch what I eat and exercise often, I am not a "Greek God" by any means, but would prefer someone who is conscious of the same lifestyle.
I am not looking for a "Barbie Doll" I am looking for someone that take's care of themselves, is spontaneous, personable, believes in God and has a genuine concern for other people.
I DO NOT DRINK, I have "NO PROBLEM" if you do drink, my not drinking was simply my decision, not promoted by the law, simply a decision I made over 8 years ago and to this day have stuck with it, and very proud of it.
I also like to do volunteer work, I have realized that there is a lot of personal satisfaction in giving of your time and efforts, sometimes a "Thank You" is priceless. As they say, "The best things in life aren't things"
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As far as me I am a former business owner, sold my business after 18 years, big time burnout set in. Made career change at 50 and now I am currently an outside sales rep for a large tire distributor in Michigan. I Love It ... Broke the chains of sitting behind a desk, and the enormous amount of stress that being self-employed brings.
If I had the chance I would be living where it is warm, possibly in the Virgin Islands selling para-sail rides for a living, but I have a son that is my life, and he needs a Dad.
I have always loved the challenge of being in sales and the gratification of getting to know someone and having them place their trust in you in a business atmosphere. There is a lot of reward in that other than just making the sale.
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The biggest thing to me in life is honesty, there is nothing stronger, my basic life theory is if there is a problem, get it on the table and fix it, make it work, whether it is a problem with a friend, work relathonship, whatever, it needs to be addressed, repaired then forgotten.
Guess how I learned that....because if you don't fix it now, it will be a huge problem in the future.
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As far as the single thing, so far not bad, it has been fun, I enjoy the freedom of course, miss the 24/7 with my son, but he will be off to college in a couple years so this may be a warm-up, for now I would like to meet as many nice people as I can, enjoy their companionship, and see where the Good Lord takes me. You can't have enough friends !!
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Well, That's a little about me, tell me about yourself................
Keep Smiling !!! ...It makes people wonder what you have been doing........


My idea of a first meeting (date) is to keep it simple and honest. It is totally up to you .....
I have found simple and honest saves a lot of B/S down the road, Let's go fishing !!