Androgynous pansexual Asian male with breasts, 53, 5'7", 180 lb, large body frame, Chinese sign sheep, long shoulder length black hair, in a long distance open relationship, sensual, affectionate, warm-hearted, intelligent, enjoys a good hearty laugh and conversation, humorous, introvert, reserved, lazy, moody, stubborn, emotional, witty conversation, good food, photography, sensual foreplay, abstract art, dvd movies (well written scripts - plot twists and turns, cloak and dagger, good acting, romantic-commedies, tear jerkers, erotic-sensuous,) homebody, casual dresser, frugal living, individual, anti-social, rebel personality type. I eat, sleep, live, work, shop in a walkable community for my normal day to day activities so I travel on foot or mass transit, have an extremely messy apartment, enjoy listening to public radio, limited amounts of old disco and motown, classical music, can be very emotional even if I don't say anything, my facial expressions tells all; watching tango, travel for pleasure internationally 3-4 times annually.

I like a warm, sincere smile; witty humor; a kind word; a warm touch, get me to laugh, easily amused and entertained, a complex personality, like see something I like in a person on a case by case basis. Prefer one on one or a small intimate group to spend some quality time or be by myself vs. a large group.

My faults: extremely messy person and apartment, difficult person, irritating, lazy, unproductive, moody, stubborn, picky person, easily distracted, pessimistic, complaining.

My turnons: a sincere smile, make me laugh so strong that my cheeks and stomach hurt, 420 friendly, be funny and humorous, witty humor, a bidet, handheld Shower Massager with hard pulse, great food, dark chocolate, pretty-beautiful faces, transsexuals, being touched, being fondled, sexual tease, be very ticklish for some sensual attention, getting massaged, Aeron chair to sit on, a comfortable bed with 1000+TC egyptian cotton sheets to lie in.

My turnoffs: tobacco smoke, allergic to animal hair (dander,) body odor, poor hygiene, going out dressed up, hip-hop, rap, vulgar behavior, profanity, extreme violence-horror-scary movies, cilantro, raw onions, spicy food, sports fan, dishonesty, untrustworthy, undependable.

My ideal POF candidate above all else makes me laugh through your wit, humor, loving, Christian believer, down to earth/real, minimal makeup, non-tobacco smoker, young (under 50), delicate features, petite, slender (under 30" waist), stacked, affectionate, sensuous, silky-smooth-soft skin, very ticklish, honest, reliable, wise beyond your age, locally within 10 miles.

The rest while highly desirable are dressing: smart, lives beyond a paycheck to paycheck and have a saver not spender mentality (pay yourself first,) be debt-free or paying down the debt and not adding new debt, manages your personal finances admirably, punctual, serendipity, spontaneity, clean hygiene, young under 50, physically fit, ticklish, gentle, petite, long straight hair, beautiful, large-shapely breasts, down to earth, passionate lover, caring-loving, warm hearted, enjoys life and lives each day as if it were their last, a non-drinker or light drinker, blah, blah, blah. Your astrological sign be Aries, Gemini, or Libra, Chinese astrological sign of a pig (1959, 1971, 1983) or rabbit (1951, 1963, 1975, 1987) for best compatibility.

The bottom line would be if there's a "chemistry, connection, spark, ahhh," compatible, desirable for the both of us to pursue it further.

Meet for chai/tea and converse, perhaps a walk afterwards, see how it goes and if there's that "ahhh passionate chemistry."