Look, if you're NOT the type of person that would clean the lint from outta my belly button........you're not the girl for me !!!! oh, & my correct physical age is 46.
i think this should be much more simple that it is proving to be. You click over email, you click in person, you like each other, then grow to love each other...and hopefully live happy ever after! Anyway, i'm hoping it will be that simple.
Looking for a girl who is honest, kind, caring, intelligent, and knows herself. Oh, and someone who will stand up for what she believes in, YES especially with me! passion is something i admire, am drawn to and try to honor within myself.
i don't know how well you can truly "know" someone from a profile, however, i want to share these following questions..
1) Do you respect people more because of their job? title? income?
2) Do you respect people more because of their fashion style? appearance? 6 pack?
3) Do you respect them more because of their education/ academic level?
Hmmm.......how do i put this, if you respect some people more than others..especially for the reasons above, you're probably not sharing the same values as i am. We are all equal, and we are always moving through life, what we are judged as at "this" moment, is not necessarily who we are in the next.
My approach to the online dating thing has "evolved" to see if there is "interest"...truly, so much of what i look for in a person can ONLY be discovered in person, or perhaps on the phone...so let's just say i'm taking it one step at a time on here...abandoning the prevalent "pre-judgement" that my experience on here has made me aware of.
Hope you take a moment to make someone smile today !
good luck to yall !

First dates...for me...they're about getting to know the person. To put it simply, just letting your guard down,and not judging the other person. Hopefully something fun go-karting, cafe by the water, or just going getting our nails done...wait, no, i do my own nails thank you!