Being a nice guy did not work here, neither did my feeble attempts at comedy. Maybe it is time to find my dark side and play at being the bad boy. see if I can attract women over to the dark side .... it is just that Darth Vader masks just do not make me look good... I will have to try to be Dark Side without the mask.

I could tell you about my photography and my love of capturing that perfect image. But then I would have to tell you that I do not want a perfect model. I love real people as models. I like to capture someone as they are and bring out their emotions and feelings in a photo.

I enjoys meeting new friends with similar interests, but not too similar, as that would make things boring. I am looking for a lady friend. I want to meet someone who has some interest in photography. Whether it is being in front of my camera or helping me behind the camera on shoots.

I have changed my POF status in terms of what I am looking for a few times, from Long term, to dating, to friends and now back to long term. This does not mean my intentions have changed, only that I am trying to find what works for me. Ideally I would love to meet someone long term, but I believe in order to do that, you have to start off as friends and develop a relationship.

I have met many FRIENDS from POF, and do not regret meeting those friends, I still talk to them, I just want to meet the right woman for me that we can take it beyond friends and develop a life together.

If there was something that you read and liked, please feel free to contact me. I look forward to hearing from you and getting a chance to talk with you.

I prefer women who are younger than me and comfortable with their own weight, whether big or small. I just want someone who is happy with who they are and does not have a hang up about it.

---- How I have previously posted on POF ... (we all know we have to keep it updated) Please tell me what version is better, the new one or the old one -----

Must love Green Jello (OK, Red or Blue Jello are ok Too)

I know, you want to know about the green Jello, but you will just have to reply now or keep reading to find out.

I am here to find a special someone, a friend, a confidant, a partner. I have no pre conceptions of who she is or what she does, I just want to meet someone who is real.

I am looking to meet someone who does not want to play head games, but seriously wants to spend the time to get to know me and shares some of my interests. No, I do not want someone who has all the same interests, that would be boring. I want to meet someone who can introduce me to new ideas and interests, just as I want to show them new things and explore other new ideas together.

Although I primarily make my living as an IT Professional and owning my own web design company, I am also a semi professional photographer (to say professional would be saying i make a living off it) and I am an actor. No, you probably have not seen me in anything, unless you watch docudramas on Discovery or History Channels, even then who looks for the coroner, the janitor, police officer #3, or the cop eating the big sandwich while working at the evidence locker?

When I am not working, I like to go to Argo games or go to a Toronto Marlies game (much more fun the leafs and they win more). I also like to take road trips, just get in the car and drive somewhere randomly and maybe catch a local fair or festival in some small town in Ontario or New York State. It has also been some time since I have been to a comedy club to catch a few laughs and meet some new peoples (I am a bit of a social butterfly).

There are times I just feel like curling up on the couch and watching a good movie or a good drama series on TV.

Green Jello? how else am I going to keep your interest up? How am I going to continue the mystery if I play all my card right at the beginning.

I have recently realized that I am maybe not looking to start a relationship with the expectations of "Long Term" right from the get go. My other choice was to change my profile to dating, but that seems too casual and again attracts the wrong people. I am looking for a friends who I can go out on a date with and if all goes well we can get off this site and if all goes right, a long term relationship. I have met a few new friends on POF and they are great people, but they are just friends.

If you are someone who is looking for a Long Term and not happy with the results you are getting ask yourself this questions "if you can't be friends how can you be lovers?"

I hope I have not gotten too philosophical or idealistic, I just don't want to get hurt anymore. I also don't want to be seen as leading someone on with false hopes.

A Large cup of coffee to go, and a nice long walk. After a nice talking conversation we could go wander into a restaurant and have a bite or something to drink.

Or if you are adventurous, we could go skydiving ...NOT.. I just do not understand jumping out of a perfectly good airplane that has a better chance of landing safely than if you jump out of it.... but that is just me.

To me Adventure is exploring new communities of this city, as well as taking road trips to other towns in Ontario, Quebec, or New York State.