ok, so i decided to finally change this portion of my profile. not many people responded when i wrote that i hate writing stuff about myself, so im trying something else. about me......well, i am trusting and honest and fair to everyone. life is too short for all the BS! i dont have time to pretend im somthing im not. if you like me, great (most people do), if not....fine too. it doesnt bother me any way or the other. i am laid back. again, life is too short to worry about small stuff. i am 30 years old, have never had children or been married. and no, its not because i have issues. my life has been consumed with bad timing. i always seem to pick girls who are either just getting out of a relationship or havent gotten over their ex or both. what am i looking for?.......well, i like girls who are between the ages of 20-40. i value keeping myself in good shape and look for the same in my mates. i dont expect for a girl to order salads for dinner, dont get me wrong. in fact i like a girl who's into good food, as i am part owner of a restaurant. i like women who know what they want in life, are independent and can think for themselves. i have no intentions of ever having a woman be submissive to me, unless she chooses so. ......my dream is to be married to a wonderful woman who loves me the way i will her. i would like to have 2-3 kids and live in a nice home near, but not in, a large city. thats about it. i dont place a lot of value on money or the things it can buy. i have a good job and make enough. i have 2 degrees and am working on my doctorate as we speak. but i do that for my future family and for the ability to make a difference in society some day.........ok, so thats enough for here. anything else and we can chat. so.........let see if this works.......lol ;)
***********ok, i know some of you hate it when a guy takes pics with his shirt off. people keep hounding me about my pics, so im trying this too. im not an egotistical maniac!

hmmmmmmmmm.....i guess i would try to be creative. usually i like to try and feel a person out and find out what they like before making that decison. im pretty simple. i like most things. so whther its sitting at home and eating a meal i cooked and watching tv or hitting the town and dancing and going to a nice restaurant,,,, it doesnt really matter to me.