My 2010 goal is to be a better person and improve upon how I treat others. Will you do the same and at least send me a message saying you were here?!?

I took the test "Your chance of finding someone increases 230%", and I am happy to let everyone know....

1) Congratulations… the results of that questionnaire indicate that you come across as consistent in what you say and what you might do in a dating relationship. Unlike many who did not pass this test you now have the ability to become a "Serious Member"!

2) Being a serious member will make you stand out in searches and emails by showing you are serious about meeting someone. Not only that but you passed our test that shows you can hold a relationship.


Hi. I am on here for a genuine reason... to meet a good woman who is looking for a genuine, honest, kind-hearted, real, non game playing man.

So many profiles of divorced women with/out children all describing how horrible the marriage was, their dating experiences are going and how this site is nothing more than a "hook up" site.

Believe it or not... I like the courting and taking it slow. How else can one get to truly know the other person and NOT look at them as if ".. they are looking at a new Gucci handbag through the store window that catches their eye ..".

Someday I truly hope to find the right woman. Never being married seems to cast a "shadow" on me (unfairly) as I am a really great guy - just ask me for references ... While I have not attained all my goals, I still aspire to enjoy life, friends, family and all that the world has to offer.

Hopefully you like a person with a wide music variety!!! Being a drummer, I have a set in my basement, I like to play to the radio, CDs, cassettes, etc. In summarizing my musical likes... rock, pop-country, classical, blues/Jazz, drum & bugle Corps.

What do I like to do, you are asking (yes? yes? yes?)... besides my drums, working in my yard, working on websites, volunteering (habitat-4-humanity and others), I like many outdoor activities including float trips, camping, hot air balloons, some mild sporting activities.

If you are truthful, maintain integrity, write me back and I will share some more of the genuine person here..

Lastly.. I add those who's profiles (written word) impresses me. But, if you never respond to me (unread/delete) or (read/delete), then I delete you and will not chase.

Let's try meeting and doing something fun where we can talk, visit, tell jokes, smile, etc. all the while getting to know one another better. Being flexible is key to the success I seek in finding in a great woman.