I am 5'4", 53 y/o, divorced, with shared custody of 2 children (boy & girl). They are my number 1 priority. Looking for number 2 (Y O U - numbers can be juggled)). I have brown eyes, and salt and pepper hair (other spices can be found when you get to know me).

I am looking for someone who is comfortable with who she is, with hope I can share her comfort zone. If you like sharing 50/50 then there is more than a 50/50 chance we might click in person, and not just on our computer keyboards.

I'm generally one who goes with the flow, so I hope you will flow my way.

Although I am looking for long-term, I would expect us to go through dating, friendship, short-term, and intimate along the way in the same way you cook a lobster. You can't just jump in for the long term. That would be like putting a lobster in a boiling pot of water. We would have to take time to get to know each other, as we warm up to each other.

I am allergic to nuts and animal hairs.

I prefer to meet at a coffee shop the first time & get to know you. From there, a second date could be discussed which would be more in tune with our mutual interests.