I haven't been paying too much attention to this, so I figured I would update/complete it since I'm insanely bored right now. Anyway, I'm going to start of by saying what probably pretty much every guy says. I am a decent caring honest guy. I believe it though. Everyone has different ideas of what defines this, but I believe my ideas are more pure. That doesn't mean I want to care for everyone I meet. It means I want to find someone I can love and then care for them. I want to show them honesty and trust. Now whether this is even possible to ever achieve in this screwed up world is a whole other debate.
If you haven't noticed from above, I think deep and wide. If you can't think for yourself then don't talk to me. I don't want to be telling people how to act. If you can think and act for yourself then I do want to talk to you. We can share different ideas and either deny them or apply them to our own lives.
I'm tired of reading female profiles that say "looking for a decent guy" and yet they have no idea of what a decent guy is. I agree it's hard to find anyone decent, but a man is not decent just because he doesn't have a 100k job or a rock hard six pack. Before I turn this description in a rant I better change the subject :)
I work and own my own house. I am responsible and somewhat of a realist (not to be confused with a pessimist) I own three cats. Random Cat, Chubby Snugglz, and Samurai. I like to do many different things. I am not into going out to bars and drinking. I do like to go out and socialize, though I'm not good at it (thus is why I'm on a dating site)
I am a hopeless romantic. I dream of these romantic situations that will more than likely never happen. It seems maybe I'm just not cut out for it. I'll keep trying though :P
I would like messages from anyone who wants to chat or interested in dating/hanging out. My life is very socially boring right now with all my friends being married and/or moving away. Don't be shy. Message me and tell me anything. I like to have conversations of any subject. So, do it! Now! Chances are I will not message you. I hardly ever message anyone first. Mostly because nobody ever responds anyway!
First Date
I like simple things. So for a first date I would have to say dinner and a movie. I'm so cliche. I like to do many different things, but who really wants to go out and do something major if the date is lame? Honestly I would be fine to go to Walmart and shop on a first date...I'm more concerned about who I'm with than what I'm doing. Grocery shopping is awesome if your with someone you care about.
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