......................"YOU CAN NEVER HAVE TOO MANY FRIENDS" :-)


I am looking to make some new friends & who knows,a Majickal Meeting of Mind, Heart and Soul! Looking forward to hearing from you

I'm going to do things somewhat differently, EXPAND & answer the questions in a way that works for me...OK,lets go on a journey...
-WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR #1...
"FRIENDS FIRST & FOREMOST",someone with:
....................................-INTEGRITY (see next paragraph)
....................................-PLAYFUL
....................................-SEXY (TO ME)
....................................-INTELLIGENT
....................................-MELLOW
....................................-GROUNDED
....................................-ROMANTIC
....................................-"READY"!

- AM I MARRIED (or in RELATIONSHIP)
NO F****** WAY! I WOULDN'T BE HERE IF I WAS...NOT MY STYLE!
When I'm with someone "I'M THERE 100 PERCENT!"

-WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR #2...
POTENTIALLY A RELATIONSHIP BASED ON "EQUALITY", FRIENDSHIP, MUTUAL RESPECT, COMPATIBILITY. (BEING CONNECTED LOVERS is IMPORTANT!)

-DO I WANT KIDS
.I DO LOVE KIDS. THEY'RE AMAZING! Am I dieing to have any? Well at 40 something it doesn't fit...AS FOR THE SINGLE MOM SCENARIO, WITH "THE RIGHT WOMAN", IF SHE HAS KIDS sure, I MEAN " I'm certainly 'NOT AFRAID OF COMMITMENT" IT ALL DEPENDS ON US.

-RELIGION
I FANCY MYSELF "A SEEKER OF TRUTH" (I'M TOLD ITS A SCORPIO TRAIT?) Truth LIES AT THE HEART OF EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING. Its just a matter of cutting through THE CRAP, all the CONDITIONING (easier said than done). I KNOW I"M NOT THERE YET, SURE NOT AN "ENLIGHTENED BEING", DEFINITELY NOT "EGO-LESS". I do however, ATTEMPT TO LIVE ACCORDING TO SOME SPIRITUAL PRINCIPLES. AS I SAID I TRY TO LIVE SPIRITUALLY RATHER THAN DOGMATICALLY........
THAT "BUDDHA" WAS A PRETTY COOL GUY....if I'd label myself anything I'd lean in his direction.

-ETHNICITY
COME ON NOW , SHOULD IT REALLY MATTER? .....YES AND NO.
Yes in that if SIMILAR it may help because people of common ethnic back grounds MAY SHARE a solid FOUNDATION on which to understand one another, IE: I met a wonderful woman from another ethniccultural background. PROBLEM: NOT MERELY A LANGUAGE\COMMUNICATION DIFFICULTY, BUT WE, BECAUSE OF OUR CULTURAL BACKGROUND LOOKED AT THING QUITE DIFFERENTLY. THIS CREATED MISUNDERSTANDING (A MATTER OF DEGREE).
...Now for the no;
PEOPLE ARE PEOPLE! IF ONE JUDGES ANOTHER BASED ON THEIR SKIN COLOR OR ETHNIC OR RELIGIOUS DIFFERENCES "ALONE", I THINK THEY HAVE A REAL PROBLEM AND SHOULD "SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP"!!!!!!!!!!
AS FOR me, IRISH\WELSH CANADIAN.
....SO, WOULD ETHNICITY MATTER TO ME? THE TRUTH IS A DEFINITIVE ,NO WAY "NOT IN THE LEAST"

-DO I DO DRUGS
NOT MY THING.

-DO I DRINK
Not Much

- PROFESSION
MANY OF US JUDGE ACCORDING TO "WHAT YOU DO"....BUT, IS WHAT YOU DO REALLY WHO YOU ARE? SOME WOULD SAY YES. I THINK IT may be ONE MEANS OF EXPRESSION AS TO WHO YOU ARE (FOR SOME, THOUGH NOT ALL OF US). AND THAT'S ALL GOOD.

Well I'VE HAD A PRETTY INTERESTING JOURNEY. LETS SEE;
I WORKED WITH THE MENTALLY ILL IN DOWNTOWN EAST-SIDE Vancouver. TALK ABOUT REWARDING!
I WAS A HAIR STYLIST IN LONDON ENGLAND, NYC AND VANCOUVER FOR A NUMBER OF YEARS. I HAVE A MASTER IN HYPNOTHERAPY;
AS WELL I WORKED PROFESSIONALLY AS A HOLISTIC BODY-WORKER (non-sexual massage). RIGHT NOW I'M WORKING IN CONSTRUCTION AS A PAINTER. TALK ABOUT DIVERSIFICATION HUH! (or maybe there's a pattern)...


Well, as for me,I'm past that 20 year old stage and know whats important to me,
REAL Connections, A TRUE, CARING Relationship based on WHO YOU ARE, NOT what you wear, NOT what you drive, NOT what you do for a living. Rather...based on WHO'S inside, YOUR dreams YOUR hopes, THE TRUE YOU....

IF YOU JUST PLAY GAMES OR WANT AN EGO BOOST... it is a recipe for failure, BAD KARMA!

I'm a pretty eclectic and down to earth kind a guy.
I REALLY, I LIKE THE SIMPLER THING IN LIFE. I'm most comfortable 1\1 or in small groups.
Pretty laid back, Although have also been described as PASSIONATE. I'm definitely more of an introvert than an extrovert, my personality test says I'm an INFJ hmmmmm?
I love to explore new ideas and new places. I've backpacked South-East Asia (a few times), traveled Nepal, visited and lived in Europe. As a true-blue Scorpio I DIG THE EXTREMES. Being a cardinal water sign I must be near the water (though not in it), preferably the ocean. AS a desert dweller, the scorpion lavishes the sun...as a consequence I found Mexico. Its been a couple of years now, but I spent 5 WINTERS in a row in Baja , driving my little red jeep and spending 8 or so weeks camped BY the sea. water to my right, desert to my left.... AWESOME PLACE!

I'm a giver by nature and a romantic at heart. I'll open the door for you, I' may even put you before myself (if I love YOU). I'm told I'm a good-hearted person, but can be very outspoken....AH Yes, like JOSEPH, a man with a coat of many colors.

something simple and low keyed, whatever works for the BOTH of us ...

PS: PLEASE ATTACH A PHOTO...ITS NOT appropriate if PEOPLE MISS-REPRESENT THEMSELVES...
-WHATS FAIR IS FAIR, RESPECT you know ... BE ASSERTIVE, BE COURAGEOUS...send a line, let's chat :-)

Female
Age between 40 and 50
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not do drugs
Must not be married