looking for my "soulmate", my confidant, my partner in life and MUST LOVE BACKRUBS. Guess that's a good start of who I'm looking for. As for who I am, I'm an attractive, affectionate, fun-loving guy who actually likes to dance. Should I be looking for a dance partner instead? Hopefully I'll find both in ONE person. She should feel as comfortable in jeans as she would in an evening gown, and look as good in both. I prefer a woman on the "average to thinner" side. It just works out better dancing. I enjoy cooking but would rather be cooking for two.

First Date? Guess that would be whatever you feel comfortable with. Talking over a cup of coffee or over a quiet dinner. Then if you decide to stay for dessert, we can see where it goes from there.