BACK IN OCT I SAID: "I'm 6ft. I'm looking for any type of female...black or white, it doesn't matter. I just really wanna talk and get to know someone. I'm in a college town and single. I really don't have much to say. I like kids. I'm into a lotta things and I just enjoy talking on the phone and online when I can. Im really cool...laid back...not controlling (like i used to be...haha). Looks dont matter. and I LOVE scary movies"...NOW ITS FEB OF 2008...I've come to realize dat once a person changes who they are, unfortunately ppl in their life must change as well or else they're not gonna agree and get along. I recently made sum changes n my life and decided dat I needed sum fine tuning and I want to start over. Im still lonely in da end. I've come to realize dat I need to explain to myself and to others what type of WOMAN I need in my life. I DON'T want Ms. Independent! I don't want a girl who thinks she's a real woman. Real women cry. Real women need companionship and realize dat they don't wanna b alone. So if u think u don't need a man n ur life, then u don't need me. I don't want her to submit I want her to admit...if she is heartbroken, I wanna know. im man enough to admit dat im heartbroken. plz no club hoppers. id rather have wine drinkers, not beer drinkers. That's a matter of class jus in case ur wondering. im old school and don't have much to offer...but myself. I have a beautiful son and he's da biggest thing in my life right now. I want time and happiness, what do u want?JULY 08I'm not a psyhcologist or anything but the way ppl choose to word there profiles say a lot about them...including me. For instance, i read ur profile and saw "can't stand men with no ambition..." The word "STAND" says a few things to me and its raises questions in me. Like, why can't you stand men...not men in general, but why use the word stand? For instance, why not "..i'm looking for a man with ambition...?" When ppl list what they dont want in a man, that means they've had it and have been burnt. When a woman has two sentences of what she wants in a man, and then a huge paragraph of what she doesn't want...the bad out weighs the good. You might have or have had too much bad in ur life to describe the good things. But I'm not puttin u down or anything. I'm just sorry that some guy(s) have treated you badly. So having said that, maybe I should change my profile...its full of what i "don't want." Its a negative profile with a positive twist. Maybe i should talk about what i do want? I don't know. I just figured i'd throw this at you. Its just food for thought...a plate full of randomness to let you know how I change for the better over a period of time. Isn't that evolution?oh yeah, also if u view my profile, say something to me. im a nice guy, I won't bite!
MAY 11TH 2009--
im way more confident, not conceited. a little shy but still interested. I ask myself a lotta questions about females on this site. I decided to post them. they could possibly be pet peeves, never the less, ill probably step on toes with some of these.
1. why don't u have a pic up? u send them a pic and u never hear from them again. now ur pissed wondering if ur unattractive.
2.Thanks 4 the pic but why do u have on the biggest pair of sunglasses u cud find? I can't c ur beautiful eyes and u look like a fly. sexy isn't how u look b4 da club. its who u r everyday.
3.why is it that in every pic, ur holdin ur camera or cellphone above ur forehead snapping the picture? tilting ur head down so that ur chin is in ur chest isn't a good shot. I own a few myself. give ur arm a rest and let someone take a serious pic of u.
4.I like dat pic with ur tits hangin out! nice cleavage shot. why do u aggressively repeat ur not looking to get laid or for hook ups? in the profile pic, u have ur breasts hanging out and a beer n ur hand. hmmm...u recognize a policeman by his/her uniform. u recognize a prostitute by his/her uniform. what's ur uniform n the pic?
jus sum general questions. I love to debate...not argue. hit me up

I know this may sound so crazy...but a first date is sitting in my room talking (which isnt really a date tho). But I'd like to get something to go, bring it back to my place, talk while we watch whatever's on tv and I show u my life...my family pictures, art, just showing u who I am. Maybe the next time we meet we can go to dinner.