I am a 36-year-old software engineer. Lets see, I like to play tennis, I have surfed most of my life. I like to draw and consider myself very creative. I am not a shy person and I enjoy affection, tenderness, and the sensuality of women. I consider myself a giver not a taker. I can be very passionate about things and I enjoy good intellectual conversation and also ridiculously silly stuff as well.
When it comes to music I like rock, symphony, any good guitar music. Tool is my favorite band so that should tell you something about my taste in music. I can listen to pretty much anything you might like though, except for rap.

I am not secretive and I consider myself a very open person who is willing to be vulnerable at times. However, I do not expect someone to be the same, you are who you are, and you need to be comfortable. I know a lot of people have gone through many types of events and we need to be understanding and patient with each other.

I enjoy families and whether they are broken or whole it is important to be there for them.

I was in the Marine Corps out of High school and then put myself through college. I lived in Hawaii for four years where all I did was work and surf. :) What a life that was.

My match would be someone that has patience when it comes to relationships, like I said before, we all have gone through something that may or may not have affected how we approach a relationship. The person should be able to communicate and not be afraid to tell me something they like or don’t like about what I’m doing, I don’t mind. Please do not reply if you are someone that holds everything in until it's too late. She would also be somewhat athletic but not a sports nut. Someone who respects her body but isn’t afraid to eat junk food. She is NOT a huge football or basketball fan. She should be nice, caring, and sincere, but also able to turn on a little attitude when it calls for it. I don’t mind a little feistiness, I do not want a pushover. I would rather you tell me I’m being a jackass then hold it in, just an example :) So then we can just laugh about it instead of be upset later. Overall just be you and we should be fine.