I lost my great dream of a happy retirement 8 months after I retired. One thing that we cannot schedule is death,its been 6 years and I think that I have tried many avenues to find relationships that might work, with little success. I've decided to renew the challenge and see if I can find the key to that success that seemed to flow so easy while we were young.Seeking a person based on height, color of hair, or other physical dimentions is so degrading to people and eliminates so many chances at happy meetings. Not to mention that it does devalue a person as a human being because they don't meet our preset criteria.So my goal is to look at people who want to really look back at me and see if there is a relationship that is possible based on the criteria that we used when we were young and daring and we wanted nothing more than the chance at happiness. We all know that time is not on our side and an hour wasted in silly pursuit of plastic dreams can never be had again.--good luck and thanks for stopping by.

Oh the dredded first date--lol---did we dread them while young--h### no we challenged them and ourselves--So the challenge can be e-mails to phone calls to more serious challenges--public meeting places with anything from coffee to a 5 course dinner is open for discussion.--The place is not the star its the people who meet in the place chozen. A burger in a strange town to a flight to the beach or to some place where the STARS of the script will as Shakespear says will do their bit upon the stage of life--etc--in other words --its up to the cast